well,
this really fat girl (not trying to be a b****)
wants to fight me. we are about the same height, but to tell you the truth, im not really the fighting kind. its kinda childish. and, im actually scared of her to. everyone is like ohh you can beat her and stuff but im scared to fight her. she doesnt like me because the guy she liked, likes me. but i dont know what to do and i need some help. its still summer, and she is threatning me and saying shes gonna kick my azz and i was like look just leave me alone and shes like are you scared? i dont want to admitt that im scared cause i will seem like a wuss in front of everyone. i tried to talk to my parents and they are telling me to inore her and that im better than her but its hard to inore her. and when i go back to school, im gonna have to live with the fear that she could get me when im not looking. what should i do? please help.
2007-07-30 16:09:11 · 13 answers · asked by Tara T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
alrighty
shes probably scared of u too
ur the same height and truth is she"ll run out of breath first.
trust me everyone whose giving u answers want to help u and is on ur side i would stand up for u if i could to that girl!!
no one likes the fat girl who wants to fight everyone
u should tell a teacher, or keep reminding the girl dont forget about the fight the one ull get ur *** wooped
or tell her ur dad is a cop :) she might get scared
or just talk to her about it and ask her why she hates u and say its not my fault he likes me!!!!!!!
and if she still fights u just say he doesn't like u cause ur fat
i bet u that her insecurity
pretend like u wanna fight her then tell a teacher or an adult and if they say ignore her tell them straight up am i going to just ignore the fist in front of my face? should i ignore the hospital when i get knocked out? yeah sure ill ignore her if thats what u really want!!!
NEVER show your fear to her!
someone will help u honey
stay strong and beautiful
2007-07-31 04:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♪ ♥♥ danniii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight up that you are not going to fight her, don't tell her that you are scared or that it is childish, and don't let your friends talk you into it. be the more mature one and calmly suggest that maybe it would be better if you both go and talk to the boy about the problem., preferrably when you have friends around you, so that they know you are not running away. That, with any luck, will take the wind out of her sails and she will leave you alone. If, on the off chance she agrees with you, then the boy is going to be embarrassed but that's better than you getting beaten up. What ever you do don't get involved in a name calling competition, keep your cool and try not to let her see that you are scared. Sorry your Mum and Dad said ignore her but parents do that cos they care but they don't know what to do to help. In lots of situations like yours it is better if you can manage it even if it is scary .
2007-07-30 23:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are so ridiculous sometimes! I'm so glad I'm not in school anymore.
Anyway...If this girl wants to be mad at someone she should be mad at herself for being so ignorant. It's not your fault you possess qualities this guy likes that she obviously does not have. It's not like you're intentionally doing something to make this guy like you. You're also not friends with her, so it's not like you betrayed her or something.
Just be forward with her and don't let her think she can be dominant over you. Tell her, "No, I DON'T want to fight you. NO, it's not because I'm scared of you, it's because it's totally ridiculous for this to even be such an issue." If she has such a problem with HIM liking YOU...maybe she should go say something to him. She won't though b/c she is a coward, doesn't want to make herself look bad in front of him. Blaming it on you is just easier.
Not that you should do her any favors, but maybe you could offer to maybe talk to him for her, or mention her to him? Maybe then she'll see you aren't such a bad person and maybe she'll feel a little guilty for being quick to judge you.
2007-07-30 23:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by C.Lee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you think you can't get away from this, set a time and place to meet with the girl and fight. Bring witnesses and let her bring some. She may not even fight, she may be bluffing. Maybe she will change her mind and be friends with you; this kind of girl sometimes acts that way, and she may not even know how to fight. This is just a suggestion; use your own judgment.
2007-07-30 23:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
report her to the cops. especially if u have witnesses of ppl that have seen her and heard her threaten u. this day and age, they don't take threats of violence lightly. u have every right to report her to the cops, then if they have it on file that shes dangerous, if she hurts u or anyone else, u can get a restraining order and have her arrested. this girl is a bully, and she needs to be put in her place. it does not matter what her reasoning is, she needs psychological help. good luck and DONT FIGHT! it could get u guys BOTH in a lot of trouble that u dont need, not to mention one of u could get sent to the ER, which are medical bills ur parents DONT NEED! there is also the chance that she could hurt u a lot more than she even intends to hurt u. i'm serious tho, REPORT THIS!
2007-07-30 23:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by waterlily750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to school early, find your teacher, and talk to her about it. If you fight her you will get in trouble. If you don't you could get hurt and made a laughing stock. Telling a teacher doesn't make you a tattle-tale. She could get kicked out of school for threatening you. You are not a 5 year old that fights back just because so and so started it! Show that you are mature.
2007-07-30 23:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony E 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are right in trying to avoid fighting her and sometimes its hard to avoid a fight, but if you find yourself backed in a corner with no other option but to fight, then fight for your very life and go for it. You can win/end a fight quickly by a kick in the aggressor's kneecaps. If she persists, then grab her hair and hit her in the face with the other hand until you feel she no longer wants to fight. The secret is your ferociousness in a fight will make others think twice about confronting you again. Good luck.
2007-07-30 23:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god! I thought that that only happened in the movies! I'm not from the States and it's really really akward to hear you saying that. I suppouse you have to ignore her or maybe try to talk her and know her better. Maybe even be friends with her I don't know, I hope your problem gets better soon!
2007-07-31 00:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by --V-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay choice one go up to her when u wanna fight u and say luk i dont like u either punch me i dont care cuz im not scared to stand up for my self so back off.
choice 2
Dont show up if u dont like choice one
and choice 3 kik and run lol
2007-07-30 23:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by Vi3t_Babii_Michi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw a snickers as far as you can and she'll be so busy chasing it, she'll forget about you. Even if she remembers, she'll be too tired to waddle all the way back.
2007-07-30 23:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by Alexandrov 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋