My husband is always is on mysapce. Myspace its not the problem what he does on it whats upsetting me.I have an mysapce page so to me its okay but hes on there all day evreyday day talking just to women none else. When I say something to him about it he's sorry accuse is that he's uplifting black women with his poems. I'm high risk with our baby and the toll on stress is running havoc on me. What should I do? Oh yes he just caught IMing one if the girls and calling her.
2007-07-30 13:00:48 · 11 answers · asked by Mahogany 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Some might say you should have known but I did not he did not act like this until 3 weeks ago.Before I became Pregnant I was told by every doctor I will never be able to have kids. So getting pregnant was the furtest thing from mind at that time. He just made this myspace page. How I found out he did not sign outof his page.
2007-07-30 13:43:08 · update #1
Yes I did tell him about his self. My mind id already made up on what I'm going to do. My thing is I'm high risk my mom died in 05 so my family all wants to do ther own thing when I went for help I had none to talk to or shoulder to cry on I'm doing this on my own.
2007-07-30 13:46:42 · update #2
sounds like you have a problem tell him to stop or you will have to cut off the internet tell him his use of the internet is causing you stress and he already knows you are high rise. tell him if he wants to up life people with his poems to write a book and put them in there.
2007-07-30 13:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Supermommy!!! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to not make any final decisions right now about giving him the boot or not. Pregnancy is a new experience that you and he are both dealing with. Try talking with him and telling him very simply what you need to feel confident in your relationship. If he isn't able to give that or if you find that he is still doing it behind your back, then I would say it's time to do whatever is best for you to get what you need whether from him, other friends or family, or yourself.
2007-07-30 14:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's uplifting black women with his poems? Please. He's a player. Always has been. Always will be. You must have known, or at least suspected, that. Did you think it would change when you got pregnant? Well, it didn't and won't. You can try to put your foot down. He can change things if he wishes to badly enough. But you will likely have to make that ultimate decision to accept him as he is or end the relationship. Sorry.
2007-07-30 13:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Tom K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say this is very strange because I'm a teenager and I never spend time on myspace. It sounds to me like your husband is not being honest with you. I suggest you turn off the computer, sit him down, and talk to him about this situation. Explain to him that your having a child and he needs to be by your side as much as possible.
2007-07-30 13:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would go somewhere else where you do not have those stressors till the babys born and then decide, my husband looked at pornography while I was prego last time
2007-07-30 13:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by mommy to be of 3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, the best thing for you to do is, talk to him about it and REALLY tell him how you feel, other than that, you cant wory yourself about it, you have to think about the health of your baby, and yourself, if he wants to fool around then thats his loss, beleive me, you will find out whatever is going on.....Just try talking to him first!
2007-07-30 13:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by babiilove101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his only concern right now should be uplifting HIS black woman!! tell him that.
he sounds like he's about to cheat, if he hasn't already. cut the internet. that'll teach him! or block him out with a password! that's what i had to do with my (now) ex, he kept looking at nasty porn.
2007-07-30 13:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by Ember Halo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if h'es more into myspace then you ,tell him to pack his bags and leave! Once player always a player okayyyyyy!!
2007-07-30 13:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh screw that. Leave him. Do you expect it to get any better after you have the baby? Find a real man.
2007-07-30 13:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by pixey03 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
honey he is not ready to be a dad or a partner - get rid of him
2007-07-30 13:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋