Husband or Wife? - IF YOU HAD TO PICK ONE.
Wife - A convicted drug user currently in rehab
~or~
Husband - A convicted and registered sex offender who downloaded 1 count of child porn over 10 years ago and has been clean with the law since.
2007-07-30 12:46:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Neither. One set of grandparents or the other with supervised visitation for the biological parents would be the best route. Foster home with supervised visits comes in second.
If it has to be one or the other parent, my vote goes to the husband-provided he is honestly reformed.
2007-07-30 12:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin k 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it had to be a choice between the two, the child would have a better chance with the mom. Drug users can learn to control their habit. Just like an alcoholic a drug user is never cured but learns to over come the craving and develops self control. The child will give her incentive to work toward that goal. A child offender never learns control. The only way to control a sex offender is to castrate them, and even then that is not a full proof guarantee that they will not harm a child. Having a young child around him all the time, would trigger his perverted mind. I will probably get thumbs down for this statement. But I really don't care. If it were my grandchild and I had a son that was a sex offender, I would choose the mother who is working towards losing a drug habit over him any day.
I would stick close at hand in case mom or child needed my help. If mom had a relapse, then I would go to court for custody of my own grandchild.
2007-07-30 20:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Vida 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
None of the above.
Turn the child over to the Department of Social Services today.
That child deserves a better life and better parents than the two losers he has.
2007-07-30 19:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by thatwench 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The wife. I'd choose someone who uses drugs over someone who uses children any time.
2007-07-30 19:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by gilliegrrrl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither, check out the grand parents, or some one in either family who is not a retard
2007-07-30 19:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by schneider2294@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wife....at least she is trying to get clean. The child porn is disgusting, i would always wonder what is he doing with the little girl and how is he treating her
2007-07-30 19:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by bribri 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wife can get treated if not none of them can claim a "child custody"
2007-07-30 19:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by o_o 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ew. Neither.
2007-07-30 19:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Hillary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither one.
2007-07-30 19:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋