and what is usually the psychological background of this behaviour?
i am a bit lost and not used to deal with people yelling and shouting - but i got to sort out this situation i have with a person who is like that.
2007-07-30 12:04:02 · 6 answers · asked by 42 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
well...wow, thanks!
2007-07-30 12:19:16 · update #1
Tell her/him when you calm down we will talk ,and stick to it.
I found out that controlling people yell a lot.
2007-07-30 12:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by yasses 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell them, "I'm not deaf" OR "I'm standing RiGHT in front of you, there's no need to bust my eardrums." That usually gets people to quiet down.
If that doesn't work, then ignore them completely until they're ready to talk to you. (Without shouting!) They'll get the point.
2007-07-30 19:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate that myself. I just put my hands over my ears and tell them to stop yelling and I will listen to them. MAYBE.
2007-07-30 22:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by Willowjac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Video tape them and tell them if they don't stop shouting you're going to put them on You Tube.com
2007-07-30 19:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by Brian Sanders 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Leave
2007-07-30 21:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by talloolah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak low yourself. They have to lower their voice to hear you.
2007-07-30 19:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by joco119 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋