I want another child now, my husband wants to wait but says he wouldn't send one back if it came now, our son is 2 and lonely I don't know what to do and every month around the time I'm supposed to have my monthy visitor, i pray that it doesn't come and that there will be another little one on the way
2007-07-30 11:14:23 · 8 answers · asked by XZ's Moma 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Your son is lonely? That's no reason to have another child. That should tell you to spend some more time with your little boy instead of dreaming about a new baby.
That being said, I don't agree with your husband either. I personally wouldn't want to wait until my eldest was in school. I'm not a big fan of large age gaps between children. In my opinion, 2-3 years is just about right.
From your husbands answer, I'd say that half the battle is already won!! Good Luck!! :)
2007-07-30 11:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand wanting a child again right away, but did you know that children who have thier mothers full attention for at least part of the day do better in life? i think your hubby is right, you should wait. Just think of all that bonding and private time youll get to have with your new baby while your older child is having fun in school. plus you wont be trying to split yourself in two different directions. My brother and i are only 17 months apart and my mother said it was so so hard, on the other hand, my baby sister and i are 13 years apart and it was so much easier. good luck hope you get the answer you want
2007-07-30 18:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have kids 21 and 25. They are like cute puppies and kitties when they are small. It does not stay like that. You have plenty of time. I believe that even though I would give my life for my children that the happiest people of the planet probably dont have any!
2007-07-30 18:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by comic linda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try a little harder...I wouldn't want to wait till the first one is in school...why have to do all teh baby stuff again??
2007-07-30 18:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun try talking to him again and let him know how you feel and it is really the best thing to have another baby if you want one is shows your a great mom good luck
2007-07-30 18:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by My Hubby Rob&Son Dakota Robert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean HELP
my dear only your husband can help you
you should respect his feeling as he should yours and come up with a compromise to when you guys should have this 2nd child
TALK TO EACH OTHER
Good luck
2007-07-30 18:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep praying
2007-07-30 18:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all you have to do is to not to take anything from avoiding you from getting pregnant, then you'll end up getting pregnant and he won't be able to do anything. good luck
2007-07-30 18:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by cindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋