Well i am really attracted to some girls in my class (I am 12 male) But i do find some buys also cute but i dont want to start a relationship with them.
Does it still mean i am gay??
2007-07-30 08:58:52 · 25 answers · asked by jonny boy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ur hormones just might be changing. for a moment when i was i think about 13, i thought i liked girls because i found them attractive,etc. but after a year i figured out that i liked guys more. the people here just saying "ur gay" arent considering ur age.
2007-07-30 09:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Finding a person attractive is different than say having a crush on them......
Do youhave romantic feelings for guys, do you daydream about them, are your feelings for girls and guys similar?
You really just have to judge your feelings, keep an open mind and most importantly not worry too much about this now....there are a lot more important things going on in your life right now.
2007-07-30 16:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 12 years old, period. Maybe if you were 17 or 18 I can see wondering these things but you are only 12 and you need not involve yourself with such thinking at that age. When the time comes you will know.
2007-07-30 16:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dusk 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are you, that is all that matters. I knew I was gay at 12 -- however, the fact that you are romantically attracted to some girls says that you are not gay. You may be bi.
Reyn
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2007-07-30 16:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't mean you're gay. I'm a TOTALLY straight girl, but i'm comfortable and honest with myself enough to admit when another girl is really gorgeous. That doesn't mean i'm attracted to her at all. There's a HUGE difference between thinking someone's cute and liking them!
2007-07-30 16:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are still young, and it is too early to decide on your lifestyle at this age. Just enjoy your teen years, and figure out what you want. But being attracted to guys and girls is not GAY, it is bisexual. There are lots more bisexuals than gays or lesbians.
2007-07-30 17:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happens to a lot of young boys going thruogh puberty. Some will even experiment at that age. It is normal and it means nothing. It has to do with hormones.
2007-07-30 16:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude - give it some time. Your only 12 years old. Don't rush. If you are, you will know for sure as you get older. Your body is doing so many strange things right now you don't even know of... so wait it out. Don't rush it.
2007-07-30 16:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by BlazInAZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have lots of freinds, date those you want to and when the time comes you will get into a relationship with one person. then you can take a look, determine their gender and thus know whether you are gay or not.
2007-07-30 19:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 12. You don't need labels. Just grow up to be a decent, honest person; love who ever you're attracted to at the moment with your whole heart, and it will work out fine.
2007-07-30 16:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by FTW 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋