I try so hard not to besause it ends up eating me alive . It is bad for my health. It makes my tummy knot and my head hurt and it doesn't bother the other person a bit. Forget and Forgive if at all possible. The last person I could not forgive---died. I tried hard to forgive, but never quite got there. I am still very sorry she died. She OD by accident.... (Nothing to do with me)a former family member.
2007-07-30 11:15:56
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answer #1
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answered by BELINDA B 4
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I can get over most of them, but I do hold on to people that have wronged me, and I hold a huge grudge against them.I need to just let go but sometimes it is very hard.
2007-07-30 16:52:14
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answered by Ron 7
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I get pissed and then get over it. I was recently beat out of an inheritance, so I am holding a grudge about that, and don't see it ending any time soon.
2007-07-30 18:22:49
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answered by ♥ Zoey ♥ 7
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Not since I got a new Grudge door opener installed.
2007-07-30 15:59:14
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answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7
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I tend to hold a grudge myself.
2007-07-30 16:04:08
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answered by Anonymous
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No, I do not hold grudges. I usually move past things pretty smoothly.
2007-07-30 15:58:13
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answered by Tony M 7
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Grudges are such a waste of time. If I have the choice to stay mad at someone or stay friends with them... I would choose the latter one.
Unless, I really really don't like you. Then you can burn in a fire and scream my name for help but i'll just laugh.
I've done it before. =)
2007-07-30 16:00:04
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answered by Anonymous
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To tell you the truth I have a grudge against you right now.
2007-07-30 15:59:23
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answered by A Random Stranger You Meet 4
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I wouldn't say I hold grudges, but I don't forget either, and it certainly makes me wary of people who have caused me harm in the past. I tend to avoid them as much as possible.
2007-07-30 15:59:30
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answered by ? 4
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i used to. as i got older it required too much energy.
unless you call cutting a person out of your life a grudge. i call it moving on.
2007-07-30 20:50:44
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answered by frostbite 7
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