why would someone hate me. i posted this pantoun poem thinge and some girl wrote that she hated me. does n e one know why?
2007-07-30 07:24:23 · 13 answers · asked by allena s 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Poetry
number one i had a similar thing happen when i posted something asking about charicter ideas accusing me of cheating on a homework assignment and this rant on how i was a horrible person etc. i shoud of reported her for abuse as should you-----what is funny is i am a 34 year old mother and artist lol
two some people just come unhinged for no apparent reason and should be blown off- the world lacks empathy today, no one learns it- if a person has not empathy they do not understand how such things can hurt, but where are they going to learn it from? If they don't learn it from there parents, there certainly not goint to learn it from there peers, tv, movies, sports heros, music, pop culture, video games, the news, magazines, or schools.
2007-07-30 07:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by dreamsofinsomnia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The net provides people an unparalleled chance to work out the frustrations of their day -- or their life -- on strangers. They do this all the time. They may be grunting inarticulate punks, or they may write like a published logician or Shakespeare. It matters not. Best not to take any of it personally. Some people are crazy, and the net just facilitates them, and at the same time exposes them for what they are. ---Unhappy people trying to share the misery.
Peace
2007-07-30 07:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Vincent Van Jessup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not hated because of your poem, nor because you are a bad person, but because those who hate need targets for their hatred. Some people, especially those who are truly immature, pretend to hate and lash out at others just to make them sad. Maybe they are picked on and feel the need to share the pain...who knows...and who cares?
You are a sensitive person who cares about others. Your words speak volumes about your soul and your heart. Remember these words of the famous poet and novelist Rudyard Kipling:
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream--and not make dreams your master,
If you can think--and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
He wrote those words for his son, but they are just as true for any poet. Read especially well the lines, "or being hated, don't give way to hating" and "or being lied about, don't deal in lies"
I only hope that the person who said they hated you finds peace in their heart...there's far too much hate in the world and maybe, just maybe, if they're reading these words, they'll realize the damage they do by hating is equally done to themselves, because they diminish the entire world with their hate.
I hope this answers your question and soothes your mind
2007-08-02 16:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i get the feeling that some people dont realize how their words can really effect someone. I hurt so deep because of it sometimes i want to find the way to do it back but you know i really dont have it in me. She was super mean to that guy and her daddy bought her a car. go figure shes been doing it ever since.
2007-07-30 09:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by Travis James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i looked at it. Angelica, huh? I think she hates you because your poem was too deep and beautiful for her to understand!
ignore her, she's just jelous. She needs to learn how to control her temper, or all she'll be writing about is anger.
2007-07-30 08:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the Internet!
People do irrational things all the time.
You know why it's called the "information super highway"?
Because of the drive-bys and road rage.
Keep your windows rolled up, look straight ahead and
whatever you do, don't cut anyone off!
Good luck!
2007-07-30 07:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Dancing Bee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was being facetious and said she "hated you" because you wrote it well.
Like I hate you...I wish I had written that.
2007-07-30 07:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by Todd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trippin it's just the Internet...
2007-07-30 08:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by Buttafli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because your beautiful. Come on do you really care?
2007-07-30 07:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by dreamyfairy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont hate you
2007-07-30 11:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋