If u are with a guy & u say stuff like I can't wait until I get a boyfriend because I need things done around my house & he says tell me what you need & I will do it. If u say my child's father is driving me crazy because he thinks I have a boyfriend & then he says well just make sure you don't tell him about me or he says things like (he's a single dad) Let me tell u about my daughter & then he says don't worry u are going to meet her. He came & spent the night at ur townhouse & all of a sudden he tells u he is going to give his notice at his apartment because he is interested in living in a townhouse or house & even ask a few questions about ur subdivision. Last but not least, I watched "The Secret" & I have this vision board of everything I hope to obtain in my life & the wedding ring I want being one of the things on the board. Before I tacked it up he took the paper & read over it for a few minutes then looked at me & smiled. So Can u be in a relationship and not know it?
2007-07-30 06:52:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have been dating for a few weeks, but we have never said what our relationship is, we have just kinda been going with the flow, that’s why I am asking.
2007-07-30 06:57:25 · update #1
I would make sure everything is confirmed with words.
2007-07-30 06:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by Random_Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your putting notes on the fridge for whom? your dropping hints to whom? I think you want this relationship but are are not sure your ready yet. just let him know how you feel. don't make things up, tell him what is in your heart. If your not ready, let him know now so he doesn't go on thinking he is wanted and needed.
This is the impression your giving us so I'm sure he is getting the same impression.
Don't worry about what your ex thinks. Just tell the ex boyfriend to get lost and don't answer his calls. only speak to him concerning the child and other than that nothing.
2007-07-30 07:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have had one of those...nothing ever said or exactly understood but always had a guy around...sit down and have a point blank questions asked if you are or not a couple.
2007-07-30 06:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, we're like that all the time. glances, hello's, eye contact. nothing overt, but you know the other person is there for you, better dressed, bringing you coffee or flowers, increased social interactions, sitting together at company dinners.
2007-07-30 09:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that he thinks he's dating you. You need to make it obvious that you aren't together. Tell him that you are not his girl.
2007-07-30 06:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kerrigan Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently YOU can be in a relationship and not know it.
2007-07-30 06:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just ask him where you stand in his book?
2007-07-30 06:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by ilovelilPhof 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you are a crackhead ? nope
2007-07-30 06:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋