im 15 and i stay the nite with my guy cousin sometimes
and he invites guys over to spend the nite too while im there
and my aunt, and my grandma, and my other cousin thinks its wrong b/c they think other ppl will think im doin stuff iwth the other guys he invites over
they dont think i do but they think others will but nobody else really cares;;;they're like who cares?
&
they dont try anything
neither do i
and if they did i would keep my distance
they're teh same age as me
&my cousins parents watch us liek most of the time its not like we're alone
they have a full house
like 2 kids and they all invite like 2 ppl ovr liek every nite
is that wrong?
i dont think so
although i can see why some ppl would think so
but you see even a few ppl im close to r callin me a hoe cause they think that im doin stuff with the guys that come over to his house&i dont!
plz tell me wat u think
2007-07-30 06:25:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why should you live your life according to what people think? Sure, you are older now and boys your age usually only think about one thing. So they worry for your safety I think, rather than your judgement. Personally I don't think your cousin would allow anything to happen to you. I was a tom boy growing up and most of my friends were guys. My parents knew this and respected it. My parents trusted me and knew that I respected myself. There was no screwing around as we were all good friends. Sure people tried to label me a hoe because I hung around mostly guys. And then there were girls who were just jealous. Truthfully, my guy friends were more harsh on my boyfriends than my brothers. They didn't tolerate a "player" messing around with me, so they would usually intimidate my boyfriends which made it hard to find a guy who would put up with it. These guys actually took care of me, looking out for my best interests. Where as my brothers didn't have time for me. Today I rarely see any of those old friends. My husband actually gets along with these friends and don't mind their company. So really I am thankful for my overprotective guy friends as they chased away all the jerks who just wanted one thing. But keep in mind, I grew up with all of these guys and I knew and trusted their families. Really I think your family has good intentions. But to allow other peoples feelings control your life is crazy. Just know what your boundries are and know that people always find something to talk about or put you down about. Anything from your clothes to your makeup to your hair style. But the point is they are puting you down so that they feel better. So shake those haters off and enjoy life. Let people talk as they will anyways, regardless it's fact or fiction. Just be you and surround yourself with people who care about you. Good Luck & God Bless!
2007-07-30 07:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by redmoondown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHO CARES WHAT OTHER PPL THINK!! No matter how good you are ur never gonna have ppl satisfied ppl are always gonna talk sh*t no matter what. dont' worry about them as long as you know that ur not doing anything wrong then that's all that matters. You can't live ur life pleasing other ppl always scared of what they are gonna think, if you live like that then ur never gonna get anywhere in life. live life to the fullest, have a blast just as long as ur safe and make smart choices that's all that matters!!!! :)
2007-07-30 14:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by bezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want people to thing you are a hoe? If not then don't stay there anymore. It's that simple. Arguing with them won't help. Actions speak much louder than words.
2007-07-30 13:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's wrong that ppl close 2 u r callin u a hoe.....sumtimes u jus gotta ignore them cuz if they dont believe u, then thats their problem
2007-07-30 13:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Patty's Tat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋