Man is on his 3rd date and anticipates getting lucky that evening.
Invites woman over to his house, makes dinner, has a beautiful bottle of red wine on the table.
He pours a small amount into each of their glasses. She takes a sip to discover it is a strong liquor the same color of red wine.
Look like he was trying to speed up the wine and dine process a bit, or what?
In his defense, he knew she loved that kind of liquor and really isn't a red wine type of gal ....
So, unique and thoughtful or insulting?
2007-07-30 06:06:23 · 10 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If she likes it, why is it insulting? It sounds like a romantic surprise to me. As long as she still has equal input as to whether or not he actually does get lucky, I don't see the problem here.
I should add that I don't see how his substitution could be construed as deceptive, since she knows and likes this liquor, and would therefore recognize it easily after one sip- well before she could get drunk enough to be taken advantage of.
2007-07-30 06:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It it walks like a duck and talks like a duck it probably is a duck. Not being there one can't really know what the gut feeling response was.
I would be inclined to wonder if maybe it was a ruse to get her into bed.
2007-07-30 13:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's thoughtful even if he was trying to speed up the process. He took the time to know what you like didn't he?
2007-07-30 13:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's pretty thoughtful. After all, if the woman doesn't want to drink she doesn't have to. As far as any "extracurricular" activity...she's in control of that as well.
2007-07-30 14:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by Dr_M_VanNostrand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he say it was wine or let her insinuate? If the latter, and she is familiar with it, perhaps he assumed she would tell the difference.
2007-07-30 14:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is thoughtful, if he knew that she liked that kind of liquor.
2007-07-30 13:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by Tony M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thoughtful. He took the time to do something for her. So his motive might not have been the best.
2007-07-31 11:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by chetter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say thoughtful, not insulting. As least he didn't put a roofie in her drink.
2007-07-30 13:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what she looks like..ive needed to be drunk just to contemplate sex...sorry to turn it around..but think about the man..he maybe nervous.and need a strong drink
2007-07-30 13:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
X-(...yuk I don't like wine that much either...
my cousin mixes hers with pop.....lol...
I would think thoughtful
2007-07-30 13:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Victoria ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋