i want to know what happeneds when a female has sex for the first time ......does it hurt ....do you bleed....will the guy know that i am a virgin???............. no mean answers please
2007-07-30 05:28:27 · 33 answers · asked by mandie :] 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It might hurt. It's different for every girl.
If your himen is still in tact, you will bleed... but these days himens usually break from other activity.
The guy may or may not know... depends on the whole himen thing and whether or not he is paying attention, etc.
2007-07-30 05:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by nephthys76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is not a virgin and he has had sex with someone who is a virgin and then someone not then he will know the difference.
It will hurt you the first 3-5 times. Then it will feel ok so the girls that I have been with say. Some smaller girls with a bigger man will bleed. Other than that its all good after the first few times.
2007-07-30 05:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt very badly and you will bleed. That is why it is important for your first time to be with someone you care about and someone who cares about you. It isn't a pleasurable experience for the female. When the time comes use some type of lubricant that is water based so it won't damage the condom to make it more comfortable.
Whether or not the guy will know if you are a virgin will depend on his experience and concern for you.
Don't rush. You have the rest of your life to be sexually active. It is a big responsibility that can have deadly consequences. Talk to a trusted adult or go to your local family planning clinic to get the answer to any questions or concerns you may have.
2007-07-30 05:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by motherofthree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women hurt or bleed the first time they have sex (it didnt hurt me but i bleed a bit). It just all depends on whether they are truely ready and old enough to be having sex. Some women don't bleed because their hymen may already be broken from sports or tampon use etc. it does feel uncomfortable the first couple of times though
I don't think a guy can tell if you are a virgin or not by physically looking at you but i am sure that they will tell during the act.. be honest with your bf and tell him that you are a virgin.. if he makes fun of you then he doens't deserve to be with you
2007-07-30 05:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st off i would consider staying a virgin till u get married r you've been in love for longer than 2 years. It does hurt and u do bleed. now i also would try talkin to your friends about it or older friends about it if u knw any. the things is once u do it the first time its gonna hurt so bad that ur never gonna want to do it again and when u do it again sometimes some people say u wanna keep doing it and u get hooked, so be protected cause thats how my friend got pregnant and she just lost hers a year ago. one time is all takes and condoms arent always 100% full proof.oh yea if u start havin sex and stop and try to have it again like months or a year later its gonna hurt cause your area has closed back up
personally ive never had sex and im 21, and trust i could've many many many times. lol. its hard to say no but in the long run u thank yourself for saving yourself the drama and tears ive had to help my friends through. its always good to learn from others mistakes so just take u time dont worry about it and if he says i though u loved me you say "well i thought u loved me" and i love me more than u, why would u just ignore how i feel for your own benefit.
anyway, guys will come and go even the fine ones girls i know i had to watch them all walk away cause they told i was too fine to be virgin but whateva!!! ive heard it all.
it makes u headstrong in the end and u come to understand men a lot better. ask u guy frinds who have already had sex and how they felt about the girl.
right now i am a virgin and my boyfriend is not and he loves me a lot and enough to that we dont have to have sex but we are very creative. you'll learn. just keep it
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anyway be strong lady, know your heart and remember what ya mama taught ya and wha u know whats right in your heart. lovs ya. God Bless
2007-07-30 05:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by lil_lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if the guy has ever had sex before he will know that you are a virgin... and yes you will bleed and it will hurt for the first time... but the next time and the time after gets better.... but you should seriously think about this... Loosing your virginity should be something you want to wait for until marriage.. there is NO guarantee you are going to stay with this guy... I am with my fiance and I wish SOOOO bad that I still had my virginity.. that is something you want to share with the one you are going to be with forever.
2007-07-30 05:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the experience is as different for each women as we are as different in appearance. Some women do bleed, some women do not. Does it hurt? HELL YES! I mean think about it you are breaking through a tuff piece of skin to gain access! However will he know if you are a virgin, i can not answer that question, but you should be intimate with him enough if you are ready to have sex with him by already telling him. It sounds to me like you are WAY to young, and my advice: WAITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!
2007-07-30 05:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah it hurts and sometimes you bleed depending on yourself and the only way a guy can tell if your a virgin is if you tell him or act out of control while your doing it, otherwise he will just think your tight from not having sex in a while.
2007-07-30 05:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very few women make it to their first time with their hymen in tact. If you do, then there is a chance for some slight bleeding, and a little more pain because this membrane will tear.
Most girls lose their hymen in gymnastics, play, or some other exercise, and won’t experience any noticeable bleeding.
There is going to be a bit of pain, but if your partner is patient and understanding, and if you’re not too shy to set the pace yourself, this can be minimized by taking it slow and ensuring that your body is ready to accept him.
Don’t rush things – if you’re not comfortable talking about these things with him and ensuring your comfort, then you’re not ready to engage in this activity with him.
Good luck, and have fun!
2007-07-30 05:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by Becka Gal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The amount of pain experienced varies by the individual. It can depend on many things, such as how lubricated the woman is, the man's technique, etc. Not all women bleed. You should tell your partner that you're a virgin so that he knows to go extra slow and be gentle.
2007-07-30 05:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by Kiki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all - every girl is different. the first time i had sex, it did hurt, but it wasnt like an unbearable pain. just kind of uncomfortable at first but it soon got better. as far as bleeding goes, that just depends because a girl can "pop her cherry" whenever she uses a tampon. so it just depends. the guy your with needs to know that you are a virgin just in case you do bleed, you dont want him to freak out. besides most guys like the fact that they are with a virgin.
2007-07-30 05:32:28 · answer #11 · answered by beth ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋