Stuck in teen mode...please help!?

Question

Well, I have had a lot of changes in the last year or so. I had a daughter back in December...I am happily engaged...and I am only 21...Anyway, I am going back to school in August to finish my last year at college and finally graduate (YAY!) and I am in a bind. My style still reflects that of an 18 year old. I want to start looking more professional. I am a mom now and I do not want to be seen as poor white trash looking...also, I want to start looking more professional because I will be graduating school and pursuing jobs with large companies. I want to know what kind of style would suit someone like myself. I do not want to look 40 but I certainly have outgrown my years as a teenager. How do I go about looking more professional but still looking my age? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated regarding anything from hair and makeup to what outfits would be appropriate, especially when I go back on campus in August. Thanks for the suggestions!

Also, I am 5'10" and about 125 lbs...It is difficult to find clothes that fit me but I need a wardrobe makeover so whatever it takes...

I have blonde hair layered that goes below my shoulder blades and blue eyes...

Answer 1

BEST WAYSTO GET OUT of TEEN MODE:
1] avoid layered shirts - [ cami with Ts, etc.] Jackets/sweaters/hoodies are OK.
2] no screened Ts in public - save for rock concerts or yard work.
3] no flip flops outside beach or car wash.
4] no patchwork/'quilted' shorts
FIGURE OUT your body type, and best colors [ that add sparkle to your eyes, and a glow to your skin.] Then purchase only items that flatter you/your body, not just what is 'hot' or 'in style'.
BUY:
a] fitted [ girl ]Ts, in brights and pastels that flatter. Try jewel neck, scoop, v-neck, u-neck, and square neck styles.
b] pants/capris/shorts without holes, faded areas, or juvenile add-ons.
c] several jackets to wear with jeans/skirts/pants: velvet, cord, denim [ summer - crochet, eyelet, lace ]
d] start collecting polished, comfortable shoes - ballet flats, pumps, boots, wedges - any classics that ft well and would work for office and school.
e] collect classic but stylish jewelry - gold or silver hoops, studs, chandeliers, neckchains and bracelets, bangles; pearls; precious stones in best colors [ emerald and ruby vs.
topaz and turquoise ] for ears and fingers.
f] other tops - twinsets, turtlenecks [ not too bulky ], wrap tops, and blouses.
g] invest in a smart leather tote or messenger bag.
h] when hired, buy one or two suits!

Answer 2

for your hair wear it down alot and get rid of the side bangs those make u look teenish...for your clothes i have put together a little outfit 4 u
this top were is frum wet seal and is grown up but yet still cute
http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1000&size=&style=38179839&color=10&token=
these pants here are also frum wet seal and look great and mature
tht is just an idea outfit and thr are many more of those outfits on wetseal.com
hope this helped
http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1200&size=&style=38301605&color=10&token=

Answer 3

When your in a professional atmosphere i understand your concern but for goodness sake your only 21 you should dress accourdingly to your age your getting married....your not an old maid and its okay to be a mom and look cute but to answer your question there are alot of cute business atire at wet seal and alot of stores for people our age :)

Answer 4

A few good pairs of slacks are good staples. You can wear slacks with a blazer and heels to look professional, or dress them down with a casual tee and a comdy pair of sandals or wedges.

Gauchos are cute and can be dressy or casual depending on the rest of your outfit. Don't go overboard on the accessories; make sure they compliment your outfit rather than overpower it. Another cute professional look is the knee-length pencil skirt with heeled boots or pumps.

Here are some links to some outfits like the ones I mentioned from VictoriasSecret.com.

If you like looks like this but want to shop a little cheaper, print out a picture of the outfits and take it to a department store or another store that has knock-offs of namebrands. You'll no doubt find the exact same outfit, minus the namebrand, half the price. My kinda shopping! :)

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application?namespace=moreInfo&prnbr=3B-213162&cgnbr=OSCLOALPZZZ&moreInfoInd=largeView&dispMode=STANDARD&buttonClicked=btn_lg_view&selColor=

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application?namespace=moreInfo&prnbr=3B-208896&cgnbr=OSCLOALPZZZ&moreInfoInd=largeView&dispMode=STANDARD&buttonClicked=btn_lg_view&selColor=

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application?namespace=moreInfo&prnbr=3B-208272&cgnbr=OSCLOCSPZZZ&moreInfoInd=largeView&dispMode=STANDARD&buttonClicked=btn_lg_view&selColor=

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application?namespace=moreInfo&prnbr=3B-197123&cgnbr=OSCLOSKIVIL&moreInfoInd=largeView&dispMode=STANDARD&buttonClicked=btn_lg_view&selColor=

Answer 5

You just recently answered my question, and i would just like to let you know that i wasn't trying to act all snobby- i just wanted to find NEW stores that i never been to before.

I do shop at target and kohls and stores like those, i never said i didn't- i was just looking for a change.

And im definatly not 12....

try 14.

Answer 6

go on what not to wear

Answer 7

idk.