Basing their love upon control and manipulation; Obstinate Inlaws do not care about the emotional impact upon all those involved. Constantly forcing their views upon others (through denial and self-centeredness). Consistantly, they have remained one-sided through all efforts(including threats to exclude another from life changing events). Successfully, plotting individuals against eachother (through enabling their control via a sibling rivalry, including finger-pointing towards a spouse). Hiding behind religion, while utilizing manipulation as their basic understanding for "why things are the way they are"; Why do people act in such a way? Why do they choose to hurt their relatives in this manner(including their grandchildren)?
2007-07-30 04:09:17 · 3 answers · asked by wlknwtr 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
They shouldn't. And, you should tell them in no uncertain terms that their behavior is unacceptable and that communication will be cut off if it continues.
We cannot live our lives attempting to conform or accept behavior that is detrimental to our mental health and well being.
2007-07-30 06:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have a need to control and have power over others,and with that desire ,in their minds,they find a way to manipulate others through the bonds they have formed over time...
Some thrive on drama,which in fact is created by their own control of others,and if the participants involved are hurt emotionally,or physically, they will justify it by blame on others as well...I believe an inner turmoil they possess drives them to this behavior,making it a lifestyle over time,with in the end will result in a world of no support from family or the ones they attempt to control...thus they will die very lonely and bitter...sad but true.
2007-07-30 04:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by *toona* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - it is not effective to snoop. on each occasion i am going away my mate seems after my pets and that i know finished properly she's been having a good old nosey - in the event that they're something like me they're going to know that pot has moved a fragment of an inch to the left!
2016-10-13 02:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋