It's a theory i have and i wonder if anyone agrees with it, what do you think?
2007-07-30 02:34:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
sounds right to me
2007-07-30 02:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the trick is to know how to get over things. They say living in the present and dealing with now is the way. Love is another with forgiveness. Love puts you in a different part of the brain and is different consciousness, mind set or altered state of being. Getting rid of judgmental words and judgment of person and only judging their actions as ones you don't want to be involved with or you become like them, hateful, vengeful and basically unhappy. Forgiveness is for yourself. Just figure to judge the whole person is to judge the good also, offending yourself and the right spirit that is also in them. It's like killing the person because of the virus in them. It's better to cure them or let someone else do it. The technology is there now. In this world, who can't use counseling? The cutting edge psychology and emotional intelligence is very good and is being taught all over. You can get books and information on the net and even search Yahoo Answers on the topics or words involved. The effort will yield so much that you will be glad something gave you the motivation, even if it was painful at the time. Pain should and can be handled or it even effects you physically. Maybe your experience is different, but most people I know who don't believe in psychology have physical ailments while those who do go to psychologists seem to have pretty good physical health. I can't help but feel that in some cases that's why. We never forget anything, but it can be turned, re-evaluated and even used to dig that same spirit out of us. We probably caught it can warp our world view. You need to take the antidote to get the cure. The medicine is a little bitter, but it heals to the core.
2007-07-30 11:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. if it is a someone i strongly believe that you can forget this person but its been five years and if you haven't gotten involved with anyone maybe that is why you haven't forgotten... if you meet someone and get into a serious reelationship i can guarantee you that you will overcome this. i've been there too and i am now in a going on to 15 years with my current partner and i have left behind the 9 1/2 years i had with the other person. and yes you will get over this person... give my opinion a shot and you will see. Good Luck!
2007-07-30 09:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by jpoveda2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You only hang onto that someone/something because that is serving a purpose for you. It is up to you to discover what that purpose is and does that purpose really serve you or do you serve it. Either you are looking for sympathy or you are afraid to move on at the risk of loosing something/ someone again. It is your purpose you decide. Some people have clung to the loss of someone they never met for over 2000 yrs. so don't feel like you are the only one who has clung to the past out of fear of the future. The only thing to fear is fear itself.
2007-07-30 10:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by Beneplacitum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that to, but it's not true. For a serious loss, sometimes 5 years isn't long enough. It may take 10 years. Life is a journey, don't put boundries on things.
2007-07-30 10:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why try to 'get over' or forget some of your most cherished memories. It's like tearing up old photographs that could make you laugh or cry later when you are numb with todays pain and sickness. Be happy! You can remember when...!
2007-07-30 10:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by midnite rainbow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes even if you still have memories, the best you can do is continue in life and try to move on. Finding a hobby can seriously help, you may meet new people.
2007-07-30 09:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by blade72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide to be or not. If you wish to continue to cling to them and the memory of them, then you will. If not, then you won't.
People who say they have no control over how they feel are those who don't want to accept responsibility for their feelings or actions. Each person ultimately chooses how to feel and react to anything in life.
2007-07-30 09:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on what it is and how much depth it had in your life. The more valuable the more likely it'll take much much longer to get over. It's all about emotional and physichal attachment
2007-07-30 10:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by Cube 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's easy saying but, NO. it's all about your feelings for that particular thing or one you gave your all into and got repaid by being disappointed, heartbroken, betrayed,lied to etc. thinking that it's the perfect one or thing for you! it's really painful the memories just don't go like that it'll take days to months, months to years and years and years, it's reality face it!
2007-07-30 09:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by mexcisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋