Fat folks and thin folks ....... ?

Question

Fat folks, do you like thin folks?
Thin folks, do you like fat folks?

Answer 1

Great question - can't wait to see what you get back.

I like fat folks and thin folks. I can say that I do have some questions that come to mind when I see a fat person, probably mixed with some judgment (I have to be honest and a little ashamed). Here you go...
- When I see someone who is "chunky" or just, say 20-30 pounds overweight, I can understand pretty well. I have struggled with my weight since my early 20s. I probably could use to lose about 20 pounds, used to weigh about 25 pounds more than I do now, but I'm not in shape, don't exercise, don't take the best care of my skin, etc. I consider this to be yellow-light condition - no diabetes, heart disease, etc, just not my best. I feel guilty about this because I think what God asks is to be our best.

- When I see someone who is obsese, this is when I have the questions. These people are obviously seriously abusing their bodies (considered the temple of god if you're a Christian). Most of them have high blood pressure, insulin resistance of full-blown Type II diabetes, some heart disease, etc. This to me is at red-light status and clearly in contradiction to God's will for this person. So, the question then to me is - what is their spiritual issue?
- On the flip side, when I see someone who's clearly not human regarding the lengths they will go to not gain a pound, I have to wonder what's up with them, too.

Few obsessions are healthy and productive when allowed to be extreme.

Answer 2

I like thin folks. But i am over weight. I need to lose the weight. Bethany

Answer 3

I'm not slim, and have had various sizes of girlfriends. My late first wife was a beautiful thin chain smoker who died young. Then, when I remarried I picked on a larger lady "my own size" (who is a chubby lover). Beauty is only skin deap, and so is fat!

Answer 4

I like the people for who they are, not what they look like.