ok, so I have been going out with this guy for 4 months..... and he's that guy that all the girls throw themeselves at..... which isn't good for me, because am such a jelous freak.......
so here's the deal....one day his cellphone's battery died, so he was using my cellphone to check his voicemail..... long story short- I got a hold of his password.....i wasnt looking for it, I just found in my notepad accidently.......
I didnt mean to remember the password, but I did!!!! and now everytime I call him, and his phone is off, I kindda check his voicemail inbox.....
So sometimes, I would find new messages from girls....and i delete them! I mean most of the time they sound just like friends....but sometimes some are tryin to sound cute and perky....or they say they're callin him back....and i get mad and I want to confront him about it....but I CAN"T!!!!!!
so wat do you think? should I tell him or should I just keep it to myself? But am afraid he'll think am a freak?
2007-07-30 01:49:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Personally, I've done that. Keep listening but keep it to yourself unless it's something about cheating, then surprise him and show up where him and the girl were talkin about meeting. That's what I'd do.
2007-08-02 04:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by JůnəßůĢ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you tell him that you have been spying on him and deleting messages from other women im sure he would be beyond ticked,thats in invasion of privacy and obvious trust issues.Has he gave you any indication hes cheating?would he cheat?these are questions you need to ask yourself before you go off the deep end.If hes been upfront with you the whole time and has never cheated or lied to you then you have nothing to worry about.and another thing how did his pin number get on your note pad to me that sounds like maybe a test meaning he put it there to see if you trust him enough to leave it alone and not go behind his back and use it.If i was you i would stop using it before you get caught,a friend could easily say they left him a message and he never got it thats going to look bad esspecially if he knows he left his pin in your phone.Look at it this way how would you feel if your bf secretly went into your phone and spyed and deleted messages?
2007-07-30 01:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to offend you, but I think you're seriously paranoid. Don't delete those messages, cause then the girls will start asking if he got their messages and he'll say no, and he'll wonder who hacked his username. Guys don't like girls who sneak behind their backs, if they SOUND like friends, trust me, their friends. He's loyal to you, don't do that to him. I'd be offended if you were my girl.
2007-07-30 01:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it to yourself and stop doing it,
he's a shitty boyfriend if he gets one message from some chick and runs off with her just like that.
2007-07-30 01:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dunno know if telling him is such a great idea. But I do know one great idea - STOP CHECKING AND DELETING HIS VOICEMAILS!
Seriously - how'd you like it if he was checking and deleting your emails or voice mails?
2007-07-30 01:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by Durga sings the classics 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a bit scary.
2007-07-30 01:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by Bog woppit. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what? He'll catch you out and guess what then? He'll dump you!
2007-07-30 01:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋