you back from bigger and better things?
2007-07-30 01:18:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think friendships are a "reason, season" cyclic thing.
Some do their natural time, then die. Some linger on and off for years but are always there, some are strongly constant and regular in my life.
I have many types of friendships, appealing to many facets of my personality.
I seldom feel my friendships are holding me back from anything, because although friendship is an important thing for me, I don't do it out of any sense of duty or responsibility to others, therefore emotional "blackmail" or those type of games don't work on me.
This doesn't mean I don't care or feel for my friends, I do very deeply, but I care and love myself first in all my relationships, so if a friendship is causing me less care and love of myself, then that is a warning sign that the friendship may not be worth the time and effort it takes to continue it.
I have friendships because I choose to have them.
Fai
2007-07-30 01:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by Fai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I started to realize that last fall, and I began cleaning out the so-called "friendship house"... I not only have lost what I thought of as an ongoing depression; I lost 20 lbs, also!
Real life trolls and backbiters, who needs 'em?
p.s. I kept the REAL gems (& will always do so)...
2007-07-30 01:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by Brat Sheila♥♫ - the Precocious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse
2007-07-30 01:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by For Your Eyes Only 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not ever feel that way. My friendships have been a positive force in my life.
2007-07-30 01:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tony M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hell No, you must seperate the two to live to a full potential in both fields - Social and Economic
2007-07-30 01:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, if i dont like the friendships, you might need to change it in a way, dont let anything hold ya back
2007-07-30 01:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. A friend is there to lift you up, encourage and motivate you. If neither of you are doing this for each other then you both need to look for new friends.
2007-07-30 01:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my friendships encourage me to fly even high, when l want to throw in the towel
2007-07-30 01:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by judie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because I'm very picky about my friendships.Most are just aquaintences, so they aren't that much a part of my life.
2007-07-30 01:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes. certain of them. those good ones i think they'r great adn bring me to new heights. im in a 'friendship' now thats doing me no good but i hv no other choice.
2007-07-30 01:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by nobodyknowsme™ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋