2007-07-30 01:03:25 · 11 answers · asked by nilesh kul 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If you are friendly, smile and talk to people in a non-threatening, non-harrassing way, show an interest in them, notice pretty smiles, hairstyles, clothing or shoes, ask questions and make them feel special, people will like you. Have interests of your own, and become an expert on something that people can ask your advice on, or a sport or activity that they want to attend with you or watch you perform. If you are a good storyteller, or can tell a joke in a way that makes them laugh, you will have a great personality.
2007-07-30 01:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and start a list of the traits you like about others. You can include anyone who touches your life. You can also think about traits that you don't like about others. From your lists of the positive and negative things, you can make a conscious effort to practice the behaviors that you feel are the best of the best. For instance, you may think that Sally's sense of humor is top shelf, shes witty and upbeat; maybe Uncle Joe is very kind and patient; and your Mom is organized and prepared for anything. You get the idea. But remember that in spite of any efforts you may make to consciously imitate some of the personality traits of others, you will ultimately put your own personal stamp on what you come up with. Because a lot of your personality is already there--genetically programmed to let loose! You're just responsible for reigning in the innate qualities that you don't like about yourself. That takes maturity and experiences and is on-going throughout your life.
2007-07-30 01:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by felixthecat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we all think we know ourselves very well, but that is not always the case. there are somethings that takes place in our lives that has a huge impact on our personality. as for me, i always used to get compliments on how nice i was and my maturity, and thoughtfulness, etc. but after my brother passed away, i was angry at the whole world and it just happened that i went from being a good and caring person to being mean and uncaring because i didn't want people to feel sorry for me. thanks to some of my very honest friends, i m making an effort to go back to the person i was and the way my brother loved me. when i say or act mean, my friends or cousins will point it out. ya it doesn't wound nice when someone tells u that there is more negative in ur personality, but i realized that i had pushed many people due to the negative change. every time someone points a flaw in me, i know that it's a negative change that took place, and i always keep it in the back of my mind and try not to act in that way. it takes time, but i m returning back to my normal self. thanks to my loved ones who stuck around and made sure that i be the same loving person i used to be.
i don't know what changes u want to make, but many people have left good suggestions.
change yourself to the point that you are satisfied because you can't satisfy the whole world. whatever changes you make, make sure you r happy with it. if it makes you unhappy, than maybe you shouldn't make that change.
good luck
2007-07-30 07:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by pk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good personality is not developed with a set of steps/rules. But many life experience does, it helps you decide which personality suits you best according to the the environment you live in, from the many interactions you'll have with new people/situations you'll meet.
2007-07-30 01:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by nadhace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know very well what are the ingredients of a good personality. Just develop these.
Don't tell lie, witness the truth, fulfill your promises, be punctual, pay and demand respect, don't hurt any body, respect the law etc etc.
2007-07-30 01:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mustansar Dar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guideline for develope persanality:
-always try to think posive.
-recollect your past sucess in present
-try to work on time.
-prepair your shedule before you start the work
-always make plan,for every work
-strikly follow your plan .
-you also work on health
you should exercise for half .hr.every day
-before you go to your work place you should make your self net and clean .
2007-07-30 04:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by braj_4201 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good personality means:
1. good haircut & shaving
2. smiling face.
3. good dressing
4 ofcourse, gaining good knowledge will also get you to improve your personality.
2007-07-30 03:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by chieftrafficwarden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean to say psychological or physical that you have to decide, then only you will get correct answer.
2007-07-30 22:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by ky d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to stay away from your computer and instead of spending hours at yahoo answer go outside...instead of asking stupid questions
2007-07-30 01:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to to treat others the way u would like to be treated. just be urself and don't fake things.
2007-07-30 03:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by queen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋