is there any Love guru there? to help me to get back my love?

Question

i love a guy who is a service holder.wen i feel i m going to involve emotionally , i tried to avoid him,then i thought why to run away from the situation?then i found he was trying to avoid me, i asked him and he answered things which is developing is not good..has no output of this emotion.then i decided to tell him wat i feel.he made a confession to me that he loves me but he cant marry me as his family will not agreed with the matter as i am a muslim girl and he is Hindu..i continued to wait for him. we had 3/4 times date also.i felt he loves me.now he is far away from me. ehen he was here he was always caring to me but on the day he left and he reached jaipur ,he talked to meover ph in the morning before leaving for office and from the evening ,he stopped talking to me and sent a sms not to wait. when he was leaving i felt he was missing me.thing is that he never tells anything i have understand everything.i want him to realize that i love him n to come back to me...should i wait?

Answer 1

I feel sorry for you but life is like this. You both loved each other but then in came your religion that made him move away from you, not because he was against your religion but he knew that such relationship can be attacked by these religious fanatics of both these communities. It is not so that people of different religions don't marry but his perception for such a marriage must be different, or he was afraid of the criticism from his family members, or now after back home he must have found some other girl suitable to both him & his other family members. If he told you to forget him it means he no more interested in continuing any more relationship with you. Just forget him & find some other suitable person.

Answer 2

Looking for some Salman Khan here as the Love Guru?

Answer 3

There's no right or wrong to this, and with such a vague question; it is difficult to answer. I have been personally mentoring and coaching people for a very long time. I have to tell you, that question always pops up.

Any love guru to help get my love back? Well, most of the time that question is literal, you lost your love and don't know how to get him/her back.

The first step toward discovering a method to achieve this is; ask yourself a question, "What benefits do I receive by having that person in my life?" then you ask yourself, "What benefits do I receive by NOT having that person near me?"

You first must realize, in yourself, we all tend to sabotage ourselves, and sometimes, we tend to pose as blind in front of the ones that are not worth the energy we must spend to be near them.

I am going to try real hard to keep this short, but it will be long enough to give you the answers that you deserve.

After you have given the questions above much thought; and I mean really think about the answers, you must move on to the next step. In your life, how long have you endured solitude; that time without a romantic relationship? If it was for a short, or non-existent time, how well do you really know yourself? Sometimes we get so caught up in the fact that we are supposed to have a companion, that we truly forget that our first companion in life, is that within. Another way of looking at this is; how can you possibly be true to another, or share all that is good within you, with another person; if you have not owned yourself for a minute in time.

Next step, how open is your companion? Does that person share themselves completely with you or, do you feel there is always something hidden? If that person is closed to you, why are you breaking your own heart trying to get close to someone that doesn't respect you by being open? Next, if your companion IS being open, calibrate whether you are being completely open to them. It is not fair to anyone to want all from another, if you are only willing to give some.

I have been in relationships, in my life, where the other is kept within a shell, one had a very violent edge to them, and another chose to forgo my love, in order to pursue many others. Then one day, when I finally STOPPED looking for love, my soul mate walked into my life and ran right into me. I had almost let her slip away, that night, but I had realized that for years, I was sabotaging and killing myself with the relationships that I had; and by letting the good ones slip away. This all happened because I felt that I was not good enough. We have never spent a day apart since we met, and we have been married for three years, and have a 19 month old daughter.

This is the final part to things. I use my story as an example for you. I was able to find this place, within myself, because I finally started realizing my thoughts, self talk and began to own my faults. It took mentoring, the right tools and commitment, on my part; to get where I am in my life. It does hurt to lose love in your life, whether it be a person, or the entire emotion. But, when you take the time needed to search deep within your self; to realize your thoughts and actions, and to begin to think on purpose, you will find your way.

If it helps, these are a few of the tools I had used, the last being the most crucial. I hope this has helped you. Feel free to email me to let me know how things are working out for you. God Bless. The tools are listed below:

Think and Grow Rich by Napolean Hill you can find it in free e-book format.

"The Secret" a beautiful movie that really opens your mind.

"Secrets of the Millionaire Mind" by T. Harv Eker

and Leslie Fieger's Delfin Knowledge system...this one is kind of costly, but there is much to be gained here; I definitely would not be living the life I have today if it was not for this. I know you can find this at: www.DelfinGlobal.com

I truly hope this has helped you. Take care and...

Warm Wishes

R. Yeager

Answer 4

ohhhhhh!!!!
should i tell u 1 thing
im also like him
i loved him he also
but he waz shy then by passin through many throns i got his no and he sent me a text dat he loves me then i said ilove u 2
our love z at 1st sight
now im in usa and hez in india
..........when there waz my last day in india i called him in da mornin and as ur b.f. did .....sent unlimited msg in evenning.....and i left
and now it doesent mean dat i dont love him or he'll leave me
just trust on god god always help lovers
the moment i went to my peer wale baba ji i felt dat i will not catch my b.f ever but after 2 min i got my b.f.'s no.
i swear
i lov my b.f. and my b'f' loves me
u hav 2 wait for ur one as mine b.f. do
without hesitating
and remember u'll b only married 2 him........
im a jatti and hez a hindu...............
and i said him dat wat we'll do if we'll not b married then he said it cant b
...............................vandana

Answer 5

hey don't be upset i dont know more about your problem but please remember if somebody love you then he/she can't leave you at any cost if he/she do so then he/she is not your true love. (finding of true love is very difficult and only the fortunate one can get this.)

BEST OF LUCK.

Answer 6

This guy does not have courage to love. Dont wait for him.

Answer 7

im not a love guru but if u give some more detail maybe someone could help u!!!!!!!

Answer 8

You don't need any love guru to get your love back.....!!!
If your love is true, then u will definitely get it back....soon...!!!



Good luk....!!!

Answer 9

yes here u can tell me ur problem
Bye
TC

Answer 10

so...........what's ur question??