Why do they feel the need to insult others? Why can't they leave everyone be? Does it make them feel big and strong when they make someone cry? Why can't they realize that there's more to life than IQ and cash?
2007-07-29 19:56:01 · 15 answers · asked by SHARON 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
What if the insulter hardly knows the insulted? What if he just up and decides the insulted will never amount to anything after a twenty minute conversation about somebody else? Why must he be so ignorant and cocky?
2007-07-29 20:07:07 · update #1
some people view life as win-lose.... for them to win someone has to lose... coldness and cruelty make them feel superior
perhaps these people were criticized, insulted and otherwise put-down as children by their parents and are passing on what they "learned"
2007-07-29 20:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by shazam 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
These things happens with me most of the time and i too bother sometime, but when i think deeply, i felt they are fools sometimes, and sometimes, i felt them as child being innocent. If we take these things so close to us, we are fools. So i leave it to god. And i belive sure they will learn lessons.
There are somethings people can understand it only it returns to them. If they insult us and we talk to them, It will make more problems between friends or the person who he or she is. So let them understand on their own, Till then we have to wait. Don't take these things close to your heart. There are soo many things to learn and achive, make use of those time to make yourself more good than that person. Automatically they will stop talking about us. May be there is a chance for them to feel guilty. Whatever people can talk, Don't underestimate yourself which is important in life.
2007-07-29 21:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what this person was thinking of when he insulted you because I don't psychoanalyse weirdos. You have to remember the words of the song when you deal with people like that - Stay As Sweet As You Are. You can remain sweet and he will get more and more bitter. Tough for him.
2007-07-29 21:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by jenesuispasunnombre 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can be so painful to hear others insulting and being insulted.
Take heart, though, from the story that Phoenix Quill tells. Let it wash over you, wave through you, and flow back to the cruelty from which it came.
Blessings
Jon
2007-07-29 21:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
the reason why people insult each other cause its the new way of hurting the emotional state of others and it means that the insulter is scared of the person they are insulting its all about fear and trust
2007-07-29 20:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by Clark Kent 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are jealous, foolish and shallow.
In the end they are paid back in thier own coin by nature because God remembers that they smiled when they made some cry.
Most people in todays world are like that but exceptions too are there
I try not to let them have any power over me.God helps and I believe in being strong, stoic , positive and self sufficient.This attitude also helps a lot.
2007-07-29 21:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
A young prince decided to test the Buddha by repeatedly insulting him.
After many cruel comments, Buddha asked the prince:
"If you were to offer me a gift, but I refused to accept it, to whom would the gift belong."
The prince replied. "Why to me, of course."
"That is correct." said Buddha. "So if you offer me an insult, and I refuse to accept it, does not the insult belong to you?"
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If you are the sunlight, no one can make you cold.
If someone can't see beyond IQ and cash, you should feel sorry for them.
2007-07-29 20:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
look , this is our life one born other dead , and we all can make just our work to be strong , good people and make evil get out from here . you shouldn't look to the life like this cause if you look for it like this you won't be a live , you must think how to be strong and how to win the match ( our life )
2007-07-29 20:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by mizo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They probably were treated that way in some point of their lives and feel that getting back at other people will help them solve their problems.... It's a sad world we live in, don't you think?
2007-07-29 20:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by brit_x29 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
cos some people are damn egoistic n have so much self pride that they don't wish anyone to rise infront of them...
so they insult them make fun of them
n feel good
2007-07-29 20:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋