dated 5 months? Even if one day -you plan on marrying each other?!
2007-07-29 18:20:17 · 12 answers · asked by Life is simply beautiful 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well considering your age, and the fact that you've only been dating a short time, do you feel like being tied to a man that has talked marriage commitment, and wants a trial run first? If you can feel secure enough about your relationship and love for him, make the trip up the isle first. It's to hard for women to restart their lives without some of the benefits and security that marriage offers. Keep separate places [for your own independence], and see if he maintains the marriage commitment. Odds are, he wants you to move in with him, that way when it goes south, he gains his space back after kicking you out.
2007-07-29 19:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes bad idea. why marry if you already live together like man and wife? Five months is not long enough to know that one day you will get married. I bet he is the one that said this but your chances of getting married to this or any other guy go way down the moment you move in with any guy.
2007-07-29 18:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me put it this way: if you move in together, you don't have as strong as a commitment as you would if you were actually married. Therefore, if something goes wrong or one becomes unhappy, that one is likely to move out. If you wait until you are married, and a problem arises, you will (hopefully) choose to honor your vows and will work toward resolving the issue. Relationships do take work to succeed, and often when a couple lives together, they take the easy way out because it is more of an option.
I say wait until you are married.
2007-07-29 18:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by January Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live together, but do not act like it is a marriage. Keep it more on the business side: who pays what, when, stuff like that. Check out one of those judge shows to see for yourself what will likely happen in this type of relationship.
And, DO NOT GET MARRIED AT SUCH A TENDER AGE!
Avoid kids!
2007-07-29 18:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by Starte Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 00:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live together prior to marriage the chances of your marriage not working out are a LOT greater. Cohabitation is a good test on if you can handle living together but if the relationship starts to go sour you will be less likely to back out.
2007-07-29 18:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would wait a little longer before moving in.
Plus once you are living together it's going to be harder to get him to actually marry you.
2007-07-29 18:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And if you get pregnant? Do you have a ring? Is there a wedding date set? Only you can answer whether it's bad or not.
2007-07-29 18:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make each other happy, then go for it! Life's too short not to live it to it's fullest extent.
2007-07-29 18:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to be certain what the plan is. you don't want to get into an open ended situation.
2007-07-29 18:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋