you give someone effection and they don't respond to it? That happened to me w/ my ex. What's the deal?
2007-07-29 17:23:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Of course, rejection hurts. Because everybody want to feel wanted by the person the like/love.
2007-07-29 17:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts for everyone and definatly for me. Some guys like attention/effection and others don't. Put it this way ... there is a reason that he's your ex.
2007-07-30 00:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by ursolastsummer! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are dense and some people are selfish you can help a dense person to learn to give back. a selfish person your better off having as an ex. Either way it hurts alot
2007-07-30 00:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it really does
speacially when you love them soo much and your willing to give them the world if you could & they show notthing in return geeez! I guess we dont share the same feelings as them, I think guys are just UNGREATFULL but than again karmas a B**** so im GREATFULL for that=)
2007-07-30 00:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes, like hell.
that's what happened to me with my ex.
:-D
I gave her everything I posibly could. I loved her more than she could posibly have wanted. apperently it scared the heck out of her, and so she ran away. and now she won't talk to me. yea. it hurts.
why do they do it?
different people have different reasons.
I'd have to find out about yours to explain it for them...
but for mine: she doesn't think anybody could posibly love her without wanting something back, she assumes that anybody who proclaims to love her will abuse her and throw her away. so, she did it first.
and when I continued to show her that i cared, she ran away.
there really isn't an answer, you could ask your preist or rabbi or whatnot, they could give you a why.
for psych, you have to really get inside their head.
sorry I don't know, but nobody really does. only they do, and maybe not even them.
maybe commiseration helps?
2007-07-30 00:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way. Emotions are very difficult for me. Lot of failed relationships because of this. Been in therapy but nothing helps much. Maybe thats why I'm such a drunk.
2007-07-30 00:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Spade, Sam Spade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I was depressed for a bit when my my ex bf did that. But I'm over it now, and have moved on.
2007-07-30 00:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by sillyshas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know how to respond to the love you offered, he will realise if he hasn't already what a sweetheart you really are.
2007-07-30 00:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by itsjustme 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he just wants to be friends and dos not want to be any more then that and he may think if he give you affection you may want more then friends so he will back away.
2007-07-30 00:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by raymond_graham61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it too, but it is symptomatic of something else being wrong in the relationship.
He just wasnt the one for you...keep looking!
2007-07-30 00:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋