My boyfriend cheated should I give him another chance?

Question

we were together 4 11 months and it was 2 days after one of our best friends funerals.

2 days after one of our best friends funerals. He did not admitt to it, but when he came home from his footy trip I was shown the pictures. We had been in a realationship for 11 months and we were living together

Answer 1

Not really sure honey a few more details would be nice. If it was one of both of your best friends why wasn't it you he slept with? You were both mourning yet he chose someone else. I think you guys are young and aren't really sure yet what you want out of life. just play it by ear if you REALLY want him take him back if not let him go. There are a ton of guys out there honey.

Answer 2

I would give him one more chance just make sure hes dumped the other girlfriend and if he has cheated on you again dump him. Everybody deserves another chance maybe start fresh is the key word I was looking for. Just relax and also trust him. I know this is very hard but you got to trust him or he will get suspicious.

Answer 3

I would not give him another chance, simply because of the fact that your relationship was still in its infancy, life is too short, and there are too many diseases out there. Once someone cheats, the trust is virtually non existent, and extremely hard to rebuild. You may constantly find yourself wondering if he is where he really says he is, or if he is late coming home you may wonder 'where did he just come back from'. Its not worth the headache. There are good men out there that will not cheat, yes they are hard to find but the long wait is worth it.

Answer 4

its really up to u since ur the only one who actually knows him, if hes sorry about it and sincerly wants to change and u think he wont do it again give him a shot but be careful but if hes not sorry at all and really doesnt care that he did u need to leave him..and once a cheater always a cheater isnt always true people who acutally want to change and dont like that lifestyle can change cheating isnt a disease that cant be cured if he really wants to change for u and hes sincere go for it good luck with this

Answer 5

No..once a cheater always a cheater.

You are worth more than someone who has the disrespect to treat you like that..go and find a real man.

Answer 6

If you really love him there's always room for chance. If he has apologized non stop and has been trying to make up for it then by all means go for it. But if he's acting like he's done nothing wrong then he wasn't right for you in the first place.

Answer 7

You should give him another chance so you don't look behind and think "Maybe." Always give people a second chance no matter how dire a situation. Get the truth. There are always 2 sides of the story; know both well.

Put yourself in his shoes. Listen to his excuses (no matter how lame) Just do it!!

Answer 8

once a cheater always a cheater. People who give cheaters another chance learn this the hard way.

That's why the expression exists.

Answer 9

i cheated constantly in previous relationships but now ive found the right person im totally faithful so "once a cheater always a cheater" isnt true but there is no excuse if he loved you he wouldnt cheat in the first place, but ultimately its your decision

Answer 10

Wow, you were together for 411 months? thats a long time lol.

You say he cheated, what, you mean in an exam or during Monopoly or something?

Erm whatever he did... he'll do it again. Men are programmed to CHEAT.. but they CAN be tamed.... you must learn to TAME him.