I'M IN LOVE WITH BOTH OF THEM (THEY ARE MY X'S TOO)AND DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. ONE MINUTE ONE IS TREATING ME BETTER THAN THE OTHER,AND THE NEXT I'M FEELING BOTH OF THEM..I REALLY NEED HELP ON THIS ONE!!!
2007-07-29 13:42:58 · 12 answers · asked by *B.e.A.utiful MoMmy*! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
new guy! why even bother choosing one over the other when ull probably regret chosing that one or wanting the other one more. just get a new guy and end of problem. i know its easier said than done.. :D
2007-07-29 13:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by precious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stand back and spend time alone. One or both of them will get bored and leave. Either way it's good because the time you spend alone will help you develop a better sense of self and what you want. And you'll be less likely to get into this situation in the future.
2007-07-29 13:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you really need is a bran muffin.
But why pick one of them. Enjoy both at different times. Time will tell which one is the right one to settle down with, and it might just be that neither of them is the 'right' one.
There is no law which says you must at all times have only one friend/boyfriend/lover. The only restriction is what "society" demands of you, but what do they know about it?
As I said - relax. enjoy life as it is, and have another bran muffin.
2007-07-29 13:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in that type of situation a few months ago...then I realized that I obviously didn't love either of them enough...if I wasn't willing to choose one over the other
2007-07-29 14:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by the-italian-one 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if they aren't treating you like a queen all the time.. you need a new one period! Guys come and go!
2007-07-29 13:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Carly W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you could know the answer.
Ask yourself this question; if I was far away from then, which one would I miss the most?
Maybe neither one. If they're your ex's why are they're no longer, don't forget the pros and cons.
2007-07-29 13:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lulu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you go back with an ex? He is an ex for a reason.
Move onto a new relationship.
2007-07-29 14:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Britnie G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
walk away from both of them and start over.you're comparing the two. it isn't right and it's only a matter of time before they both figure it out.
2007-07-29 13:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must know which one you like the most... Go with the one who has his head screwed on right- and has his life together.
2007-07-29 13:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Renesme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you recall why each was an ex? That might help you decide. If you can't recall, just hang in there, they'll remind you.
2007-07-29 13:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tonya R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋