2007-07-29 12:45:17 · 11 answers · asked by Butterfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
marrage is better......all the support from someone u knows loves u....and u can do u with out turning into the old person at the club...lol
2007-07-29 12:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by nena5271 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Living together with your partner works out better. Married will be good for a while but then both people get to comfortable and it gos bad. It takes about 7 years. If the same thing happens and you are single separating is easier.
2007-07-29 12:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your personality and what you want out of live. Some people are great at being married, some people just make a mess of things. I think it depends on what a home means to you. To me a home is a warm place with some one who cares always there at the end of the day and perhaps children to snuggle and watch grow. I grew up in a home with two parents and a sibling and I think, psychologically, this is what I needed to feel stable in my own life. But this was my second try at it. The first was with a man who, I think, really didn't wanted to be married, but thought of it along the lines of "it's what people do." We are still friends and I think he is still totally unmarriable to any woman. I've known woman this way, too.
I don't think marriage is a natural institution, it's definitely a man-made, societal arrangement. But I do think it is a noble and honorable undertaking designed for the purpose of creating a financially and emotionally stable home in which to raise children and serve as a base of operations, so to speak. Romantic love is only a small part of marriage. Marriage = partnership in the business of life. For me, marriage and family life is the only way to go. But, after my divorce, I opted to remain single for quite a while until I found just the right lover and partner. Now I'm pretty content.
2007-07-29 13:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by zero 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no right answer. It all depends upon your situation and what is right for you. Some people love being married. That's me. If I ever lost my wife I'd start looking to find another person. Others feel that the freedom of being single is best for them.
2007-07-29 12:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by William D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I loved being married, but now I'm single is a whole new adventure. Both can be good.
2007-07-29 12:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by the_wayward1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After a certain age it's better to be married , after all you can only be a whore for so long. You'll lose your youthful figure ,good looks,then you'll need somebody to love you just because.
2007-07-29 12:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by crappiekat1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hhhmmm.... of course it depends upon the person... there are advantages and disadvantages... its nice being single, and being married to someone you really love is a fulfillment, a great happiness..
2007-07-29 12:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by ein j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Single - you have more options in life. Marriage sucks your spirit away.
2007-07-29 12:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going though a divorce after 30 years, Why,... physical and mental abuse from him.
2007-07-29 12:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
single and youre young...married if youre old and ready to setle
2007-07-29 12:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋