We have only been together just short of two months.I really , really like her.We have been taking this real slow.Both of us have experienced hurt in previous relationships so were both cautious.
Anyhow, I have a vacation from work coming up in two weeks. While I had nothing planned,I have been thinking of asking her to take off work too and go away with me.Her job is very flexible so I don't think that would be a issue.
Would I be pushing things too much? How would I best bring it up without seeming like I am rushing things? I am thinking of paying for the whole trip since it's my idea.
My thoughts are maybe flying us out to Orlando to the Disney parks for a few days or driving up to Vermont and doing some hiking and staying at a bed and breakfast.
Should I ask her or is it too soon for a vacation together ?
2007-07-29 12:02:16 · 10 answers · asked by nappeeone 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
err lots of good points . I did mention that I only wanted to go a few days to the Disney parks . I think I am going to run the Disney idea by her. I think that would be fun and not a pushy as a Vermont! As far as my motivations I would like to go somewhere on my vacation and I would love to spend some time with her without the distractionist of daily life.
2007-07-29 15:50:18 · update #1
****Oops I meant for that to read Distractions of daily life!
2007-07-29 15:51:57 · update #2
Consider doing it for 2-3 days, not the entire vacation. You can then have some time to work on projects on your own.
It's not too soon, but it could be a long time alone together, so far from home, if you're insecure about the relationship enough to ask this question.
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2007-07-29 12:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi .. there is no harm in asking and she can make up her own mind. I guess it all depends on how you ask so I would say keep it casual and also just say to her - do you think this is a bit to much at this stage of our relationship. She may think it is a cool idea or not .. but you will never know.
It sounds as if you both are quite open in your thoughts / feelings to each other so should not be too hard to discuss??
The flip side to this is to ask yourself why you are even needing to post this as a question here .. are YOU sure you really want her to go with you, what are your concerns, what are your motivations...
anyway have a good holiday either way !!
2007-07-29 12:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can't hurt to ask her. Just tell her you have some time off and you wanted to see if she wanted to take the opportunity to get to know each other better. Come across as a no strings attached type of thing. Tell her that you arent looking for anything to happen (physically, emotionally, sexually) and you have no expectations during the vacation that way it doesnt sound like you are rushing her into things.
2007-07-29 12:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree to limit your vacation only to a few days. Take her out to dinner and bring up the idea. Offer to get separate rooms if that would make her feel better. The worst this is she'll just say no, there's no harm in asking.
2007-07-29 12:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Forgotten Junk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no i do no longer think of so. And as nicely, thus, it rather relies upon on how nicely your courting is and how nicely you recognize one yet another. while you're rather close, then ask her. and he or she does not ought to declare definite besides. yet once you 2 nonetheless think of there are gaps on your courting, such as you 2 nonetheless are not close adequate to take an 8 week holiday, then i could say hollow unusual asking her. And it rather relies upon additionally if she says definite or no longer. wish I helped :P ~Cherry Bomb
2016-12-11 04:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask her, what can you lose? but maybe not for a long period, and i dont know about you paying for the whole thing... that bit is somewhat early in the relationship, she needs to pay at least a large part of it, because otherwise it would base your relationship on a lack of balance.
2007-07-29 12:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by joe the man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be good to get to know her better, She will be outside of her invironment. You'll she how she really is.
2007-07-29 12:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kelsey C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not to soon.and plan to give her a bath.and wash her a
ll over!and wash her inside.
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2007-07-29 12:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
theres no harm in asking her . see what she says .
2007-07-29 12:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah two months way too soon.
2007-07-29 12:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by Kittynater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋