Ok, heres the deal: Suddenly, everywhere I go, I get guys trying to get my attention. It's so annoying! If I'm on my bike, or walking, or whatever, they beep car horns, yell (How you doin'? Or 'Hey baby!), rev car/motercycles so I'll look, they wave, or other annoying things. I don't get it!
I'm only 13, I don't have big boobs or a big butt, I'm not even pretty, and I don't look super-mature for my age! What the heck?!? I normally just keep going and keep my head up, but apparently it's not working! I don't wear skanky clothes, or give them any reason to do this stuff! I've started carrying pepperspray and a whistle, but it's so annoying, because they never even get close enough for me to kick them in the balls.
What do I do!?!?
By the way, I don't want to act gross or call back or anything, I just want it to stop.
If any of you guys that do this are reading this, please stop! It's really creepy.
2007-07-29 10:39:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
BTW I live in US of A. I always wear t-shirts and jeans (neither are tight, ever)
And that's hard, cuz I live in FL, and it's the summer! HORRIBLE! BTW some of these guys are construction workers.
2007-07-29 10:45:41 · update #1
No. I'm not pretty at ALL. My friends are WAY prettier (models, some of them) but this never happens to them! Just me! WHY me?!?
2007-07-29 10:49:07 · update #2
SH the Virus! You are obviously one of those guys. I'm only 13 you ***! Besides, your probably isnt long enough for any girl, which is why you post this. Just chop some of your head and put it down there. An easy remedy even you can understand! Go drown yourself, why don't you? Do us all a favor
2007-07-29 10:59:57 · update #3
Dear Whatever:
If you don't like my question, you don't have to read it. Simple as that. Goodbye!
2007-07-30 02:28:02 · update #4
well..... this has happened to me to in many cases.... for example when i was like 11 or 12 in a Wal-Mart store... i saw this creepy older guy probably like in his late 40s or early 40s checking me out....... i mean... i was only 11 or 12! talk about perverted! He even whistled at me...... *shudders from thought!* Whenever i work at carwashes, (im in band and we are trying to raise money so we can go to Disneyworld!) i usually hold the sign bc im tired of washing cars, and its so disgusting to see how many perverted ppl there are in my town..... im only 15 (turning 16) a sophmore and have no boobs, no butt, i barley reach 5 ft., and i also don't wear tight revealing clothes. Luckily i have awesome friends who yell after them at the carwashes: " you freaking perverts!!!!!!" lol =) just try to ignore these ppl who creep u out even tho its hard to ignore them.... i usually just give them "the look" lol =) well good luck with this situation! -saxaphone_girl
2007-07-29 11:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd dump him asap. If he likes another girl and she him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? Real love doesn't play games or have wandering eyes, it's committed and hard work. You MUST see this as a red flag, a deal breaker, strike three. Your young, i'm guessing, you shouldn't even be considering a SERIOUS relationship that is going to cause you insecurity. Have fun, don't become overly invested in this, WHAT? you can't flirt? Move on, the writing is on the wall and it spells trouble. Do yourself a favor and cut the guy loose, if it is destined to be, it will run it's course and he'll be back. But why you would take him back only you can answer.
2016-05-17 06:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just gross and rude. This will happen a lot if you're on the side of the road walking or biking because a guy can just act as rude as he wants without having to be face to face with you- it's like he gets a chance to be disgusting without having to be confronted about it. You sound like you're doing everything right to help not have this occur- keep dressing appropriately for your age, be careful, and stay classy, that's really all you can do.
2007-07-29 10:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by CrissK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sry, if the guys are doing that to you. they've done it to me many times too. i know what your going through. the list u describe yourself of not suppose to get attention, like u dont wear skanky clothes etc, its maybe because u are really pretty. or some guys are just plain perverted. theres alot of different guys being perverted. its not only by how u dress or anything. i think guys that pass by you when there driving, is that they wanna see if your gonna look back at them n get your attention. who knows. hope i help a lil.
2007-07-29 10:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by DoitDuey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ah guys being guys. that's the age i started noticing them doing the same thing.
it's just cat calling. they will do it more as you get older.
you are best just to ignore it. the kind of guy that cat calls is probly the kind who doesn't respect you enough to approach you properly.
don't go kicking or assaulting a guy over just calling out to you. if they try to touch you then by all means spray away.
just ignore it and keep doing what you are doing
welcome to growing up lol
2007-07-29 10:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by nataliexoxo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some of those guys are freaks or just feel like doing it without really feeling that way.
Yeah, its annoying but sadly thats just the way some people are.
2007-07-29 10:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by Owl City <3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dem i feel bad 4 u but there's a lot of solutions to ur problem u could always try dreesing like a grandma lol...the only reason there doing this is because they want to get in u'r jeans!
2007-07-29 10:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by GORGEOUS 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
guy shave done that to me before too and i'm only 12!!! (almost 13. 4 more months). i just act like i didn't heear them and don't turn around or scream 'what!!!' then they just kinda stop.
2007-07-29 10:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by ♥TheBeatlesAreEternal♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure ur not wearing anything too revealing then ull draw less attention,
if not then show em who's boss, carry a magnum 44. if its legal in your country :)
2007-07-29 10:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
guys always do that to girls walking and stuff for them its just fun to mess with girls. dont overthink it.
2007-07-29 10:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by rita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋