Will I go to hell?.........................................?

Question

Will I go to hell if I find women attractive. I've never acted on it though. But if I think about it, is that a sin. If it is, Im sining anyway, so why fight temptation?Am I doomed to go to hell anyway?
What do you think?

Answer 1

wow!
Love the answers so far. To answer your question, there is nothing wrong with the attraction. there are beautiful individuals of both genders and of all races. Nothing wrong with finding someone attractive. Now if you let it rule your life, then the balance of off and there is something wrong. Everything requires balance. Don't let your desires overtake you and dictate what you do. Accept your desires and make them a part of you. As long as you hurt one one and respect the boundaries of others. then there is nothing wrong. You find another woman attractive, fine no problems. Just don't let it consume you. Remember everything in life needs balance. Too much one way or another interrupts that balance. Accept who you are and your desires and wants. Accept your responsibilities and duties as well. Balance my friend. Balance.
As for the Hell aspect. Hell has many names and comes in many forms. Usually Hell is created by the individual, Mephosophes merely runs the Inn.
Acceptance of once self is a sure way to relieve the stress than you create through beliefs and teachings. But all teachings in religion fail to point out that Balance is required.

Answer 2

NO
It's wrong to think any thing homosexual as wrong...
nor should you treat homosexuals any different than any other people

Homosexuality is the choice of the individual and does no harm to anyone but probably you and your partner

The only reason homophobic attitude started in the first place is

(1) people can't grasp the idea of it and just don't find it "normal"

(2) because some nerd decided to put it in the bible that it was wrong
when really in a way god only cares if you and other people are happy
In fact if that is true most Christians would go to hell because they bully homosexuals.
and causing pain towards another is sinful



thank god I'm not gay though

Answer 3

Well do you want the christian opinion? God does see it as wrong, if you repent and stop lusting after women you will get into heaven just fine. If you continue to do it, then you won't. A lot of people are saying you go girl, just do what makes you happy and that's awesome for you to hear - but it isn't the question you asked. You might be having fun with another woman, but it isn't right in god's eyes no. Good luck with it. For those saying it isn't a sin, it very much is. He makes it clear several times. Try looking it up in the bible.

Answer 4

First, homosexuality is not a sin! Think, are you willingly choosing to like/be attracted to women? How can love, between two mutually consenting adults, be sinful? "Sin" is a religious concept and is founded in dogma rather than in real behavior, because sin carries with it the sense of evil and the expectation of Hell, which are, in an objective sense anyway, without basis in the "real world." Doing bad, being without virtue, includes dishonesty, hate, ignorance, violence, but loving someone...? No.

Second, Hell is only a concern if you actually believe it exists.

Answer 5

Surly, by now you know the difference between good and bad and evil.
I do not believe that God would send anyone to hell for thinking or wondering....
You know what a sin consists of ....Do you want to sin with another person. Are you prepared to live with your choices-
Don't look to others for permission to do something you are not 100% sure of .

Answer 6

First you must come to the point where you feel that you yourself are attractive. Then you can seek compatibility.

Nobody believes that they are going to a place of eternal damnation, unless they are convinced that it is a real possibility, and by that time you will find that they are very distressed and praying and reading the Bible.

We live in a very liberal world, lies are presented in the media aboiut how people live, and there are obscure social pressures that we find ourselves subjected to.

In any case you need to develop.

Answer 7

Fighting temptation makes you a stronger person and will help you in the future. Pay a visit to the nearest rectory and present your inquiry there.

Answer 8

A lot of girls find women attractive but don't act on it, that's normal. And honestly, you shouldn't go to hell. If God is so loving and caring, he should forgive you.

Answer 9

The Bible does teach that homosexuality is a sin, but if you only had thoughts, that is something you can still control with prayer. And, no matter what your sins, they are forgiven by accepting Jesus into your life and repenting.

Take care.

Answer 10

We are all our own individuals and have our own likes and dislikes in life. So far as I am concerned you will not go to hell for something like this, we are who we are and God cares about who we are deep down inside.

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