Well I'm 18 and I have been living with my boyfriend for a year, so it is a very serious relationship. He has been telling me lately that I'm crazy and he wants to get me help, (just yesterday this happened he didnt want to be bothered with anyone because he said he had a toothache but it hurt me so bad that he didnt want to be around me that I was crying and he just ignored me because he said i had no reason to cry and all i wanted was to know that he cared that i was crying but he wouldnt look at me, only the TV. so i got so frustrated i started throwing stuff and then i told him i wanted to kill myself, and i really do want to kill myself when he makes me feel like he doesn't care about me) do I need help? how can i get it i have no health care or money?
2007-07-29 08:25:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Sounds to me like your about to start. Relax and find something to do to occupy your mind and stop worrying about the little things.
2007-07-29 08:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need to look at what you are doing. You are using manipulative behavior to get your boyfriend to pay attention to you. If this is your regular behavior, you are going to find all sorts of people who will be turned off by how you are acting. You need to find another way of communicating and expressing your needs. Your boyfriend may be insensitive and maybe it is worth looking at this relationship, but you still need to be looking at what you are doing.
Check with your county if they have a program for health care when you don't have insurance. Are you working? Do you need to get a job that includes benefits? Do you need to develop skills to get a job that would offer benefits?
Best to be self sufficient. That way you can develop a relationship with a person based on other needs other than being dependent on them.
2007-07-29 15:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have gone through the same thing.....sometimes people have problems with someone who they love ignoring them or giving them the cold shoulder. It makes them feel inferior and not loved and that the person doesnt love them. its a terrible feeling that can cause you to go into a rage of anger and a bunch of different emotions that can cause you to feel like you want to die. The solution....well you need to go deeper into why you react this way. Me, because i have a problem with abandonment and I hate the way it feels when anyone ignores me. You need to find someone who you trust, to talk about this type of stuff so you can get it out of your system and hopefully letting it out will give you some freedom from feeling this way. You arent crazy and you dont need to spend money to get help. you just need to talk about it with someone. Hope this helps and good luck!!
2007-07-29 15:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by chiquitabonitaboriqua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens to alot of people...more likely than less females!
men dont understand the sensitivity that females have and go through...if a male seems not to care then dont worry...just dont do the same when the tables are turned...have you ever heard the keshia cole song "let it go"..."you need to get if he dont wanna love you the right way he aint gonna...its not where he's at, its where he wanna be"..."how can i love someone who didnt love me?"...well, just let it go...there's plenty of men out there who would love to treat women right and take care of them...good luck grl!
2007-07-29 15:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by txgrl93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get hold of yourself QUICK! and know that it is not all you.
I think there is something wrong with him too.
maybe the whole relationship.
stop crying and get strong.
you can do it!
I know you can.
I am a weak person inside, but when things start getting crazy I start getting tough.
2007-07-29 15:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by retta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋