I don't know what my deal is. In college, I had a really good connection and group of close friends.... Now, the time in my life that I wish they'd be the closest, they seem to have forgotten about me. It's so depressing. Have any of you expirienced this.....where you thought you were close with people and it turns out that they're just shitty afterall?
2007-07-29 06:25:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
you had college friends . that was all they were . someone to hang with at college..
2007-07-29 06:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm only 13 and yes i'v been there and i'm sorta there now.
Even though i missed my friends, i went and found new ones. Every now and then i'd talk on AIM or the phone, maybe hangout with them once in a while and then it turned into hangout out more often and then 3-6 times a week.
I think it's not a phase but sorta like that.. It might pass but i say go find friends who will remember and love you forever!
Good Luck
2007-07-29 13:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes all the time...the only time that i had true, great friends that were always there for me and cool and i was there for them was in the military, to be particular, the US Air Force in the job "ECM" they guys in that career field were the best, and i have movie stories about them. Now living in the private sector no one cares at all, no one has any commeradery (yes i know i spelled it wrong, it's Sunday morning for jones sake)
I know how you feel, it's hard to experience this but what i do is keep making more and more friends and so it's like they are on a turntable and fill in the lonely spots when the others are gone ya know, like a rotation of friends...i still keep in touch with my USAF buddies but they all live far away...it's gets better, hang in there!
2007-07-29 13:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by nonstp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I had this friend when I was a teenager who thought he could only have one friend at a time.
When he got tired of hanging around with me, then he would hang around with my other friend.
He did it to both of us once too many times so we stopped hanging out with him. Once he got the point and we told him he can have more than one friend at a time he stopped doing it.
Later in life I asked him to be in my wedding and he didn't come. I sort of knew he wouldn't
There are friends out there who will be true most of the time. You will be burned occasionally, but if you don't reach out to people you are missing one of lifes truly great things.
It's worth the risk. Once you've been burned by someone you've learned a little bit more about who to become friends with next time.
I don't have very many friends, but the ones I do have a close.
2007-07-29 13:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by Meng-Tzu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
College is a tough transition, but take heart! You can meet new friends too. We've all been disappointed by people, friends, family, etc. Try to forgive them from the heart. I know it's hard sometimes, but well worth it. The key is to stay positive about your future and thank God for what He's given you and also for all the good things he has in store for your life. God Bless!!
2007-07-29 13:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by j b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes very some times they stick up against me or so.
SOme friends are called parttimefriends they only hang out when your in a good mood and your life is great they run off yes i have friends like that but now they arent my friends find better ones.
2007-07-29 13:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by ladypink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Years later, you might re-connect.
After I got married, my best friends slowly dissappeared. 16 years later, my best man called me out of the blue. I hadnt heard from him in over 10 years. Next time I get near home, I'll have to stop by and see him and catch up on all this time.
Now, with dissappointment. I've had friends abuse my trust, and financial assistance, then screw me over even more. Thats very dissappointing.
2007-07-29 13:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by chewy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I had best friends in High School. When I got married and my own little family they just drifted off. Not sure why. You'll find new ones. If you can keep in contact with the old ones.
2007-07-29 13:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by J~Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened once with me- my old "bestfriend" and I started drifting apart and then when I needed her the most, she just let me down even though I had always made time to help her- no matter what. But it's ok... now she's going down a bad path and without her influence, I'm going down the right one
2007-07-29 13:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definetly. i had a friend i was best friends with, but after we were friends for a while, she was selfish, imature, and just a B. and that made me so angry, because she would be mad at me for little things that didn't even matter, but at times like that, you have to move on. Maybe, you just need to be a little more independent, i think we all have those times, and its just a time that we need to grow, and learn to survive without other people.
2007-07-29 13:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by Girl_Interrupted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes all the time...thats why i now choose not to have friends..i am my own best friend and i don't need a crowd of people around me to make me happy
2007-07-29 13:27:26 · answer #11 · answered by sweetpeabecky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋