you just have to be there to talk to. When someone goes through a hard time, it can be hard to get out, and it might take some time. But if you're there as an ear to listen, a shoulder to lean on, and a hand to guide for your friend, it'll help them more then you would ever think. Trust me on this, i know from experience. If they're Christian, introduce them to the books of Job and Romans. Those books are very good for people going through a hard time.
2007-07-29 04:10:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Inspiration
Where has it all gone?
Have all of the words escaped?
Inspiration on demand
Emotions all displaced
'And I will wander endlessly
Seeking all the answers that I let slip
through my fingers.
I will wander endlessly
Seeking all the answers that
I let slip and fall away.'
Turn it all around
It melts into sound
(unfolding... ever growing)
Torn from my rest
Though I still fight to stay.
The images dissolve
As the day invades
A second to react
The mind too slow to act
(unfolding... ever growing)
Drown the voices of restraint
Make them choke to silence
Incinerate the ropes
And embrace the hope
(unfolding... ever growing)
Splintering the doors
Free the mind to soar
(unfolding... ever growing)
Turn it all around
It melts into sound
2007-07-29 11:39:30
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answered by Me 7
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Be an example, and set a good one. And hope that they will follow down ur path. It doesn't have to be similar to theirs, but u will show them that u are taking steps toward a goal and they should be too.
Or a simple talk may work.
2007-07-29 11:09:46
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answered by Anonymous
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Inspiration=Hope. Faith=Hope. Encouraging her to rely on her faith, whatever it happens to be, even if completely different than yours, can help and your willing ears and big shoulders can help her carry the burden. Peace to a good friend she has in you.
2007-07-29 12:37:52
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answered by Anonymous
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Just be there,listen,feed.
I`ve gone through some dark times,didn`t speak to anyone for days at a time.
2007-07-29 13:19:01
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answered by Rich B 7
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Just let the friend know that you empathize and that you are there for them if they want to talk or take your friend out for some diversion from his/her problems. You are a good friend to be concerned.
2007-07-29 11:08:59
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answered by Anonymous
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nah dude i can't help > i got nothing and thats what a good bartender is for
2007-07-29 11:10:27
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answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7
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let's see what hard time you have I got wings
2007-07-29 16:51:16
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answered by @NGEL B@BY 7
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i usually try to get their mind off of it.
i try to amuse them, and make them laugh.
i usually do a weird dance, and they usually feel better.
:]
2007-07-29 11:16:06
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answered by amberdoo93 3
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