I think me & my bf of a year & four months are pretty much done...
It's killing me inside so so much...
I don't know what to do to make this any easier for me....
I truly love him...but I don't believe he truly loves me anymore so....why waste my time with someone who doesn't even love me back you know?
So yeah...
Any tips on how to get 'em of your mind & help the heart break???
Plz help...I really could use some nice words of edvice...
2007-07-29 00:50:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Last night was when I realized he doesn't love me anymore...& so It's just the start....I don't know how long it'll take to move on...Honestly I don't think I'll ever stop loving him....
2007-07-29 00:52:30 · update #1
Love is a two way street*> not a one way street*... Give all the love you have to a person who really appreciates and cherishes you and is capable of returning the love and affection that you show them*......Love your avatar*...
2007-07-29 02:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time... it is not going to happen overnight....
You're going to have to convince yourself it was for the best, it wasn't going where you wanted it to. So therefore your life is better without him because now you're free from a broken relationship... and sometime maybe you'll find someone who it will work with.....
You need to try and keep yourself busy through meeting up with your friends more, having fun and maybe start a new sport or keeping active.... If you don't keep yourself busy and social you may suffer depression and try and get back with him when that's not for the best. You must try and remain positive and hopefully you've got some supportive friends and family to help you through this.
Don't rush into a new relationship until you feel you have moved on from ur ex.... and can be happy with someone else
You can get over him.
2007-07-29 08:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by bluechocolate86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's something you should always remember, it's their loss and your gain, he is not the only fisherman in the sea. What you need to do now is concentrate on your future and goals, for example, you're 16, still in HS i believe, what do you want to do when you graduate, Someday while completing you education and if you decide to go to college, you'll meet someone, 10 times better than him, who knows time will tell. Don't dwell on the past, live the present and future.
2007-07-29 08:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by J1 M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you plan on moving on, why not ask your bf if his feelings have changed for you. If they have and he wants to break up, then you know it is over. Make a day to hang out with girlfriends and go shopping, get a makeover, whatever. It will hurt in the beginning but each day you will feel stronger and stronger and eventually the pain will ease.
2007-07-29 08:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by bluemysti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie Savana. Well to me it is better for you to take a two weeks break of yourself because it is still fresh in your mind but here are some tips.
1 Well this is still fresh in your mind then it is good for you to try to go for a vacation or try hanging out with your friends and for sure when you are hanging out time then it will be fun with them.
2. If you are trying to go on a vacation then it is better for you to go to a place which is relaxation and for sure when you are in there try to find a place which you can really relax yourself and for sure when you are in there you can also try to forget about it.
3. After this two weeks then it is better for you to try to go on with your duties and it is not good for you to just sit at then corner and think about it and if this go on then for sure there won't be any point of you and also it will lead you to a bad way in your life.
Try rthis and hope it might help you....................
ALL THE BEST.........................
2007-07-29 08:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget-amins
2007-07-29 07:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by Urban Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could get together with your girl friends. Go shopping, go and see a funny movie go and treat yourself to a great massage. Don't do anything that reminds you of him. Maybe if this fails seek professional help.
2007-07-29 07:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋