do we treasure someone more after we are beginning to know that it is possible to lose them after all ?

Answer 1

thats quit possible so its best to try to always be real nice & loving &
never say mean words
just resolve what the problem is
& stick to only what the topic is
& not drag up other stuff

Answer 2

are you saying that we become more aware (of them and their needs) if we think we will lose them, that they will leave? maybe, some people do that. But is treasuring trying to keep them and make them happy rather than us being ourselves. I mean, we shouldn't go out of our way beyond how we would normally be just to keep them. Sure we can discuss things and work to stay together (saying just "this is me, take it or leave it" is a copout, but "each" trying to change so that life is comfortable together is good), but to go outside the circle just to prove something shouldn't occur. Sometimes communication works, sometimes it doesn't. Some people want continuance (after finding both people have a lot of the same likes and dislikes) and some people find it impossible to reconcile their thoughts and accept a split.

Answer 3

Yes, sadly we do.
It is hard to sustain the freshness of a relationship.
We forget the little things and settle into a routine which can take each other for granted.

The possibility of losing a loved one is a real wake-up call and puts things into perspective.

Answer 4

yes. that's the saddest thing in life. only in a crisis we come to know the true value of a person. we treasure our aged parents all the more when we are aware of the gaping truth.

Answer 5

yes, because we are only human and whenever we know in advance that we might lose something or someone we exert all our efforts to let them know how much we treasure/love them before we finally lose them...♥

Answer 6

I think so, because once you`re close to losing someone or something, you won`t take them for granted and enjoy every minute with them.

Answer 7

yes,i guess so.we tend to take our loved ones for granted,as if they are ''supposed'' to be there and whatever they do for us deserves no kudos coz they ''ought'' to do it for us as they love us.
''i like not to be loved but told loved''-george eliot.
but we tend for forget that-those tender gestures & acknowledgements,we tend to get so busy that our loved ones may feel lonely & often unwanted.but for us life goes on..
it is only when we know that we may lose them,do we really start treasuring them :)

Answer 8

i know i do. i guess it is because when we have someone and we know them, we are happy and we think nothing really of them because we, in a way, take advantage of their presence, but when we are close to losing them, we begin to want to keep them. we want to hold onto something or someone who we thought would not change. we or at least i fear that change...

Answer 9

Oh yes I do believe this is true...
I lost my dad at a young age and missed him more once he was gone than I ever did when I had him still...

Answer 10

I think after