This is one thing i do not understand about homosexuals and that is they claim that they want to be different and they say they don't want to be like heterosexuals and they even openly despise heterosexuals but at the same time they copy heterosexuals.
Why else do the majority of homosexual couples have one person who is masculine and the other person who is feminine.
In the majority of male homosexual couples there is one man who is masculine and one man who is feminine and in the majority of female homosexual couples there is one woman who is masculine and one woman who is feminine.
That is very bizzare and ironic, if homosexual don't want to be like heterosexuals they would not copy heterosexuals and every male homosexual couple would have two masculine men and every female homosexual couple would have two feminine women.
It seems to me that deep down inside most homosexuals really do want to be heterosexuals and the ones who impersonate the opposite sex want to be that
2007-07-28 23:09:03 · 12 answers · asked by john M 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
to and the homosexual men that are feminine and which dress like women it's obvious they want to be women and have a heterosexual relationship with a man and the homosexual women that are masculine and which look like men and dress like men it's obvious that they want to be men and that they want to have a heterosexual relationship with a woman.
What are your thoughts.
2007-07-28 23:11:39 · update #1
None of the first four posters have bothered to answer my question and it's obvious that you lot havent written anything that i have said and have instead jumped on the defensive band wagon, honestly why do you people waste your time replying if you are not going to come up with a reasonable logical answer.
2007-07-28 23:16:52 · update #2
When you say, "homosexuals want to be different ..." is this a reference to them embracing their homosexuality or is this a statement declaring their aversion to heterosexuality? ... or both? ... Because being proud of the sexuality that you were born w/ doesn't automatically mean you dislike the other.(although if this does occur it's far more likely for the hetero to dislike the homo)
I don't think it's a question of them (homosexuals) "wanting" anything about their sexuality. They are born that way and pursue it accoringly w/ no influence f/ the heterosexuals (other than staying in the closet to avoid heterosexual condescension)
It seems to me, the homosexuals have good reason NOT to copy the heterosexuals in light of the common predjudice displayed by them.
2007-07-28 23:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WANT to be different? Seriously. All I ever wanted was to NOT be different that's why I was suicidal for a long time when I realised I was gay. All I wanted, ever, more than anything was to be heterosexual. It's not a choice, but I am so tired of saying that. But I am sure as he'll not going let people make me feel guilty for being who I am, if people have a major problem with it then they need to learn to get in touch with their mind and souls and have the strength to see what the real problem is. No sane person should have any issue with 2 consenting adults being involved sexually. It hurts and concerns nobody. So what's the real issue?
2014-04-26 00:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was really long, I stopped reading when I got to the middle. First of all, I do not hate heterosexual people, that's silly. And everyone is at least a little masculine or feminine. It just depends if they are willing to embrace that fact.
Your question is quite a waste of time, actually. It's like asking "Why do all heterosexual people eat tacos?"... they don't.
2007-07-28 23:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Deena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
homosexuality in my opinion is kinda weird even tho i respect them and have lots of gay friends love them like family i think it can be a identy problems of the sexes. Just like the yin and the yang each of us have a male and female side to us. Sometimes the identity of one is more overpowering then the other. I dont think its coping heterosexuals its just the way it is. They want their own sex rather then the opposite something they feel closer and familer with. just a quess i do also think its genetic
2007-07-28 23:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by Michael A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think some just like to rebel, to shake people up. Yes, they do return to heterosexual structures, even wanting to legalize marraige and even adopting children (both of which I strongly disagree with)
Sadly this is a choice of lifestyle that can lead to real bad things. Worst of which is the judgement of God.
2007-08-01 16:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
exciting question! I evaluate it would desire to be something like this: non secular human beings do no longer recommendations civil marriage going on considering the fact that that it quite is between a individual and lady and they additionally could acquire it considering the fact that marriage isn't maximum magnificent a non secular factor thoroughly, even nevertheless civil partnership in simple terms isn't civil marriage considering the fact that some non secular kinds get huffy approximately gay marriage (i.E. now no longer between a guy and lady) being suggested as "marriage", as marriage is stated as maximum valuable being for a character and a woman and not the rest interior the bible.
2016-10-09 12:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by newnham 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, Whoa, Whoa....Whoever told you we want to be "like" heterosexuals was wrong. We were born being who we want to be. I wasn't born being masculine(I'm a lesbian) and she wasn't born like that either!!!! We are both very feminine and both very gay...If anything gay couples try to be or imitate heterosexuals because they probably think it will help them gain accept-ion... I'm not looking for any special attention or laws, I just want the same as you and your wife!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-28 23:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationship dynamics are related to emotional intelligence, the ability to be receptive to intimacy; is relevant in regards to personal development and role play - not sexuality.
Sounds like you are steamrolling your question geared towards creating drama when in reality there is none.
2007-07-28 23:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of an essay on wordplay and a joke gone too far, not really a question
2007-07-28 23:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoever told you that we don't want to be like heterosexuals?? We'd kill to become straight, but unfortunately it's a lost cause because we were born gay. . .sometimes that's all you've got to work with, so be it
You just don't understand, you'll never get it unless you are borned gay
2007-07-28 23:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋