Vaginal intercourse compared to masturbating?

Question

Hey guys...

I've just started having sex with my girlfriend (she's my first and I'm in my early 20's) --- I started masterbating at a young age. When I use my hand I make it tighter then her vagina is. I am also her first but was wondering if she is loose compared to the other girls out there...I don't want to find out for myself so i'm asking you --- Can you describe how tight they are generally? (no children)

I know i'm not small (6.7 inch length with good circumference) and I've always been happy with my size.

Also...I have hard time finishing when wearing a condom....i'm starting to hate those things --- is this normal??? bareback is nice though :)

Also...sometimes she'll squeeze my penis when I'm inside her to make it feel good for me and i like this a lot?

Can you guys just tell me your opinions and give me a little insight?

I'm actually being serious so don't answer if you aren't going to be or tell me it shouldn't matter or any of that B.S...thanks!

Thanks to both of you for your answers.

So its normal for it not to be really tight. When lubricated....penetration should be rather easy without lots of friction.

What is the average amount of time of intercourse it takes usually to finish. Will something like 30 minutes of constant intercourse normal?

Thanks for being upfront.

One more thing....is it normal for my penis to fall out during intercourse? It's not like the vagina will hold onto it...right?

Answer 1

The Average Vagina Size is:
3 inches along the posterior wall with a diameter of 0.9 inches, though in stimulated phase it balloons to 3.8-4.5 in. long by 2.3-2.7 inches in diameter. Anyway, some girls can have different internal measures though for oversized (big pelvis) the sizes tend to be wider overall. On the contrary, some vagina is so tight to give back difficult and very painful sexual acts (penetration). Your feeling towards condom is common because we all hate it! Yep, anal intercourse is another alternative as like as oral act and condom-free penetration during the female "sure time". What do you want to know more then?

Answer 2

it's normal for you to fall out, I used to have that problem until I started using a c0ck ring, I am not sure but I think by using that and making it harder and firmer it helps to keep it from falling out. As for the tightness everyone is different, try different positions....if it takes a very long time for you to c*m then try masturbating less often. For a better feel I use durex ultra-thin with extra lubrication....I've never had condoms that felt so close to the real thing.....nothing will actually feel like the real thing of course, but I suppose this would be as close as you could get without going bareback.

Answer 3

want some advice from an experienced woman????as for tightness, every woman is different... you have diff muscles in the hand then she does in vagina. As for the condom. safe sex is always always better ... and using a condom may help with prmature ejaculation.. yes the sensation is different than going natural. but again, safe sex and no pregnancy is worth it.... the sqeezing of vaginal muscles , well my hubby like this too... but sometimes it can be hard to hold it tight for too long. squeeze, release, squeeze, release.................. how about just trying a new position??? from behind?? her legs together for doggy style yours spread. she will be tighter ... lol. i think there about a million other positions, all fun. but you are just starting so relax and have fun

Answer 4

Your hand is your hand and you can squeeze as much you want but vaginal muscles are not the same and in addition, she needs to use her mental powers and concentrate to squeeze her vaginal muscles to provide you more pleasure in turn losing her own.
The tightness is relative and different in every body. Don't concentrate on tightness just enjoy and let her enjoy.

Answer 5

Yes vaginas are loose and when they get wet they are sloppy. Condoms are a necessary evil to decrease the chances you don't get a STD. Add that to the mental games some women play and you see why many of us see masturbation as a viable alternative.