i used to be IN LOVE my best friend.
now i hate him for letting me love him.
i hate him because i can never be with him.
i hate him for being too old.
i hate him for it all.
i want to be with him more than i want to be with my boyfriend.
but every time i talk to my best friend, i chicken out or i have a mood swing and turn into a total b*tch.
WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?!?!?!
last week i heard a song on the radio that my best friend let me listen to on his MP3 when we first met, and it made me feel so great when i heard it for the first time.
when i heard it on the radio, i started crying.
and i was on the phone with my boyfriend, and he was wondering why i was crying.
so i blamed it on something my boyfriend's dumb friend said to me earlier.
and then i got even more upset for lying!
i no longer talk to my best friend, because i can't handle it.
i'm so screwed up right now.
i feel so depressed.
2007-07-28 20:41:18 · 4 answers · asked by Jane Doe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, currently you're not being honest with anyone about your feelings and this is making you unhappy. Ask yourself this question, how important is it to keep your best friend in your life, important enough to risk losing the friendship if you share your feelings? If the friendship is that important, let the feelings go and focus on your boyfriend. My next question is about the boyfriend. How important is he if your feelings are stronger for your friend? Is he just the boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend or are your feelings for him genuine. If they are, then he deserves more from you.
Depending on your age, boyfriends come and go but true friendship is often for life. Choose wisely!
2007-07-28 20:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by lizzie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shall i tell you whats wrong with you?
you're hurting
you love someone you cant be with and its awful
you dont hate him, you love him, but have to be angry at something because of it, and he is the only option
all that you have said is completely normal in this situation.
There is nothing worse than loving someone you cannot be with
2007-07-29 03:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All symptoms say you still love your best friend...
2007-07-29 03:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by Somewhere in Time 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are nuts!!
2007-07-29 03:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by zanthus 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋