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i you kiss someone (with tounges), do you %100 get HIV if they have it? what about an oral sex? a bl***job?
i've always thought about those questions, but never asked. thanks alot.

2007-07-28 19:38:39 · 5 answers · asked by moonlightNY 1 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

oh, also, do alot of people hide the fact that they are HIV+ and still have sex with other??

2007-07-28 19:42:51 · update #1

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its a good, smart and brave thing to ask these questions. especially before engaging in potentially risky sexual behavior.

HIV is transmitted sexually, or through needles. bodily fluids are how it is passed from one to another - but saliva is not a way to get it. you can tongue kiss like crazy. no HIV.

there is a risk with oral sex, anal sex, vaginal sex. don't exchange used needles. its highly rare to get it through blood transfusions, but it is possible. always use protection. condoms are very effective when used all the time, and used correctly. sometimes a condom can break.

get tested, ask your partner when they got tested last/if they've been tested. if you had sex last week and were exposed to HIV, and took a test tomorrow, it wouldn't necessarily show up - it can take up to 6 months. so get tested reguarly, even when using protection just to take care of yourself and be healthy.

protected sex with someone HIV positive is very safe.

the fluids that transmit the virus are: semen, blood, vaginial fluid and breast milk.

there is a lot of information on the internet, there are places to get tested for free - and it is totally CONFIDENTIAL. i just got a Rapid Test and in 20 minutes i had results. there have been lots of advancements and treatments for HIV positive folks.

always have condoms around and ready. happy orgasms to you.

2007-07-28 19:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by lunaticxxcalm 3 · 0 0

You won't get HIV from kissing and it is unlikely from oral sex unless you have cuts or similar in your mouth and only then if your partner ejaculates in your mouth. If you wear a condom and it stays intact, you have almost no chance of infection. I have friends, one positive and his partner negative, who have been that way for 20 years and have an active sex life using safe sex practices.

You don't have to tell someone if you are HIV+ but you should never allow anyone to have unprotected sex with you if you are. In some jurisdictions, it is a criminal offence to put someone at risk by not insisting on safe sex if you are HIV+.

2007-07-28 19:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by tentofield 7 · 0 0

Kissing is next to zero. Oral sex is possible but less than anal sex. The thing is, you don't have percentages because it's like Russian roulette and you don't know if you're getting the bullet or a blank chamber.
Unprotected sex with anyone these days is really dumb!
And everyone should enquire about their potential sex partner's sexual history and HIV status beforehand in these times....everyone!

2007-07-28 19:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by gone fishing 5 · 0 0

I once read about a girl in her teens who fell in love. She has only ever had sex once in her life. The reward for her one nights pleasure. She contracted HIV.

You tell me the percentage of risk. How many people get HIV the day they loose their virginity.

Rather than playing a numbers game you would be wiser in playing it safe as that's the only way to know you are HIV free.

Unlike the PlayStation, in this game of HIV there is no reset button.

2007-07-28 20:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by xxx000au 7 · 0 0

Yes people with HIV/Aids do still have sex.

2007-07-28 20:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by bravofan71 5 · 0 0

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