2007-07-28 19:00:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The end result of his past marriages may not have been his fault. Maybe he just kept on marring the same type of person.
2007-07-28 19:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are always 2 sides to every story. In this case there are 5 sides! Find out at least 2 of the sides before proceeding - preferably the side of the story from the most recent ex-wife, as she might know the stories of the other exes.
I've been divorced twice myself, but I don't consider myself a bad risk for any woman contemplating dating me. I just made a couple of bad choices and ending up paying for them later.
2007-07-29 02:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by Spiderman 4 Ⓥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alarm bells would be going off in my head! A man who has been married and divorced four times is just not worth dating.
2007-07-29 02:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe date, but as someone who has dated someone that was married 3 times, each ending in divorce, let's look at the common denominator in all these relationships...it's the dude!!! Doesn't it make you wonder WHY all these women left him? And believe you me, if he did it to them, he'll do it to you. The guy I dated was running around on me behind my back & then he tried to make it out to be my fault for his running around. Steer clear, there's too many good guys out there to waste time on this one.
2007-07-29 16:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm #4 for my husband and we've been together for 14 years. Way longer then the other ones. I think sometimes it just takes longer for some to mature then others and realize they have responsibilities they have to take care of. And maybe they might have to go through a marriage 3 or 4 times before they see that. And maybe they didn't have good role models in their life to teach them how to love and respect and honor their other half.
2007-07-29 02:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. He either doesn't take the time to get to know the women or it's him that's the problem. I don't understand how somebody could be married that many times. I guess there's nothing really wrong with dating him, but I sure wouldn't marry him.
2007-07-29 02:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Because if the relationship goes well, he'll eventually ask you to marry him, and you'll know how that will end. It's obvious he has some type of problem that hasn't been fixed, and you don't need to waste your time with him.
2007-07-29 16:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jasper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would date him. To me, it sounds like he's a little shady. I wouldnt sleep with him either. I definitely wouldnt marry him. To me, it sounds like all the skeletons come out when it gets married, expecially if its been four times. Oh, dont kiss either. Forget what I said, dont date him at all. Something's not right.
2007-07-29 02:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by sexykp78 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not unless I wanted to become a statistic in his divorce count.
2007-07-29 02:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by Nina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly no I don't think I could. I would be wondering what the reason for all the divorces was. He could lie to you and tell you it was the woman's fault when it was really his.
2007-07-29 02:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by Dani&Morgan 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋