does a guy REALLY love his wife, when he has cheated by talking sexual to someone else ( didnt actually ACT on it though) and always putting down his wife to others. Telliong everyone how horrible she is, and then confessing his love to other women. he STAYS with the wife though, he claims its only becuase of thier child. does it sound like he ACTUALLY LOVES this wife of his?
2007-07-28 18:44:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He loves his wife, but he's a jerk so he acts like one. Home with the wife is very comfortable and he doesn't want to give up his child for some floozy who lets him talk dirty to her.
2007-07-28 18:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. If he is telling other women that he loves them this proves that he does not love his wife. He may be staying with her because of the child that they have but it bet it goes way deeper than that. Divorces are ugly and costly. If he stays with his wife then he is not forced to pay child support. He has more $$ to spend on the other ladies in his life. If his wife is permitting all these horrible things to happen to her then I would bet that the husband is in complete control of all the money in the household. Besides the money he has someone to do his laundry, cook, and clean for him. I bet his house is sterile. A man this controlling usually demands that the wife be a slave and keep house extremely clean, way beyond the norm. If I were the wife I would leave his butt and take him to court for child support. There is no love in this relationship and this is hurting the child as well as the married couple. What if he overhears his father talking bad about his mother? I would tell her to get out of this loveless relationship.
2007-07-29 02:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by checkthisout! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen up, relationships are very complicated , but for sure this guy wheather he loves her or not weather she knows or not , some people are very selfish that want everything without responsibilities , no doubt this man is very mainipulative or even heartless .
A MAN WHO CAN DECEIVE OTHERS AND PLAY AS AN ANGEL IS SOMEONE YOU CAN NEVER TRUST.if you want me to tell you all the posibilities then i will, What if his wife does not know that he is cheating ,what if he really does not care about his children and all he cares about is not loosing money when divorceing his wife cause for sure if he loved his kids he would have treid hareder in his relation with his wife,DO NOT BOTHER TO THINK ABOUT THAT all you need to know is that this man is not the kind of person who anyone would risk living with and wasting any emotion on him.
2007-07-29 02:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by mony y 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's staying with her for some reason! And that line about the kids is just that....a LINE! He obviously wants the other girl he's been flirting with to believe that he does not. While it's wrong of him to say those things about the person he married (if he doesn't show her respect, what can the other women really expect him to do to her?) He doesn't think enough of the other woman either because she does not have him!
2007-07-29 02:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by MoonGoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. In most cases he ACTUALLY loves his wife and the horrible stuff he claims about her is almost never true..and the "just for the kids" line is the oldest one there is.. He is just trying to get laid. But it in the end... its his wife he LOVES....thats why he stays with her. Please don't fall for it... You'll always only be second best to a married a man and your the one who will end up being crushed in the end..
2007-07-29 11:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by busymum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he loves his wife, except when hes angry at her so be puts her down by telling everyone, which is not good. He wants everyone to think that he's doing his wife a favor by being with her. Sad huh?
2007-07-29 02:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by sexykp78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He don't love his wife, to sex talk with someone else is no big deal but putting down his wife to others is, and he already said that his staying is just because of their child, isn't it obvious that he don't love his wife anymore?
2007-07-29 01:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he probably loves her but maybe but things change and yes a child can make you stay with some one even thought the relationship is not so good and he probably don't want to lose half everything he owns plus pay child support.
2007-07-29 02:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by Have Tongue Will Travel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I could count the times I have heard the same story....... Men say this to get into a girls pants this is the only reason why they say these stories. If you are the one who is being told this to be careful he is only trying to get in your pants. Wise up.
2007-07-29 03:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you can love someone if you hurt them.
He's not doing her a favor by staying with her for the child....maybe he should let her decide.
2007-07-29 02:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋