What is wrong with me? He's never done actually hurt me before, just broke things, I can barely move my right arm.
2007-07-28 14:01:55 · 25 answers · asked by Candy H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Aw, i am sorry to hear that you are living like this.....Do you have kids? OR do you ever want kids? If he is doing this now, and you don't do nothing about it, it won't stop. You have to Get OUT and get help........ Trust me when i say he won't stop unless you do something about it..... i have been there..... Let me tell you a short story........ i was with a man for 10 years, He was very Mean to me, Hurt me often or when HE had a bad day. We had two kids. And times goes on, And he still kept doing things to me, my mind my body. and even tho i knew it was wrong i still stayed there......to make a really long story short,,,,, he all most killed me after a few years and then i took my baby's and left....... i did not talk o this man for 8 long years........ and when i did he told me Thank You for Leaving me,,, Cuz it was what woke him up and made him realize he was out of control....... So See don't want 8 years to get help or do something about it........It took me years to heal.........
2007-07-28 14:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by CINDY m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell away from him now. Don't give him the chance to do it again. If this is the first time, there will be a second and third and so on. I've been there, I know. You love him, that's natural. But if he loved you, he wouldn't have done it..even 1 time. It won't stop. This is a subject that I know first hand. Please get away before it gets worse than this. You may not have the chance to later.
2007-07-28 14:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you, is, that you have extremely low self esteem to want someone that abuses you back.
At first, he's just breaks things. Then, he just pushes me. He was drunk. He said he was sorry. It's only a black eye...
For god's sake, get out!!!! This person does not love nor respect you. If you forgive him and take him back- it's only going to escalate.
The only way you should "consider" taking him back is after he has counseling for his aggressive/abusive behavior.
You're the only one that can protect YOU.
2007-07-28 14:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by magikal01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur problme is u need a mna that will respect u and treat u like the queen u r sometimes we are so blinded by what we think is love we dont do things the right way and we're afraid of being alone but as long as u put ur faith in god sweetheart u r never alone remeber taht honey
2007-07-28 14:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
woa if he beat you up call the police. you want him back because you think you love him but you really just dont remember what loving is. If he really loved you he would NEVER hurt you. no matter HOW mad he was. dont let him do this to someone else. call the police or send him to anger management or something! (and get your arm looked at!!)
2007-07-28 14:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by stefi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to listen to your head rather than your heart, but honey he's probably almost broken your arm and long term he's going to break your heart. You love him, but try to imagine a lifetime of this.
You have to look after yourself, you are too precious. And think about if you have kids down the track, odds on he will hit them too.
2007-07-28 14:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by Janey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-10 11:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by costoso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of you two is loony tunes. You decide.
He may not have broken any part of you now, but the more time you give him... it'll come.
Run, don't walk, to the police. Get a restraining order and throw the clown out.
2007-07-28 14:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by ahnikarose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love make us not see who that person really is and before it's too late you need to get out of the mess.after he started breaking things should have been a reason to leave.
oh yeah,go to the hospital and get that arm checked then to the police and get him checked
2007-07-28 14:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by cyrontae1110 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why you would want him back but it's a good sign that you know that's wrong. Get some counseling and whatever you do - NEVER SEE HIM AGAIN.
2007-07-28 14:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋