I'v been dateing my girlfriend for 3 monthes now, and i love her with all my heart...i wanna merry her but dont know how to ask her...what should i do?
2007-07-28 11:53:58 · 10 answers · asked by Brittany G 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just ask her I'm sure she feels the same about you. you won't know unless you ask....
~ good luck ~
2007-07-28 11:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by sam 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a big thing. In order to ask her to marry you, you must make sure that this is REALLY what you want. I suggest you think about this long and hard. Maybe bring the subject up to see what her view is on it.
If it is what you want and you have thought of it, then you should try to do it in a romantic way =) Take her to a nice restaurant. Maybe take her somewhere quite and beautiful like the lake, beautiful part of the forest, or on top of a cliff or something where you can see the whole town. Then, when the time is right, ask. Make sure that it comes from the heart and that you ask when it is ready.
2007-07-28 19:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by James 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make sure you've thought about this totally. 3 months isn't really that long, and she might think its all a bit rushed. make sure you've thought this threw and you know she feels the same way. could your relationship survive if she's no? think about that also, i hope she says yes, she probably will, but be prepared.
i don't know what she likes, if she likes the romantic stuff (i personally prefer this) then take her out somewhere, of stay in, make her dinner, light candles, play your song if you have one, ask her while its playing. its not original, but it will make her feel special.
my step-dad asked my mam to marry him while she was hanging out the washing, i wouldn't recommend this cos i think it was a waste of a big occasion. she still said yes though.
good luck
i hope you have a fantastic life together
xxx
2007-07-28 19:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by coffeetime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 months isn't a very long time. I don't like to judge people's situations and feelings but I have been with my girl for 2 years and we are just starting to talk about it. Date and have fun! Worry about marriage later. Just my opinion....
2007-07-28 19:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by ejd8206 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say just ask her if she feels the same way about u, and then ask her if she will marry u, because if u plan on being together for a long time, then u better get to asking then.
2007-07-28 19:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by Bri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her if you want to. before you do maybe have a chat about where she would like the relationship to go and drop hints about marriage. see if there are positive vibes after that. good luck!
2007-07-28 19:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait three years and if you still feel the same just ask her
2007-08-01 09:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by fspade05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you always want to be with her . Its the same thing .
2007-07-29 21:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it come from your heart and you will be ok, and ignore that annoying wench (jamberlin) she is just jealous
2007-07-28 19:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask her..if you have been going together that long, it shouldn't be hard to do.
2007-07-28 18:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by deb 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋