2007-07-28 10:20:15 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Just make sure you get them back
2007-07-28 11:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by KEVIN G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes. i can't forgive, when it hurt me to the point where i cant even forget it. forgiveness for me is very hard. because when people hurt you, its like you mentally can't forgive them. this issue has been coming in my life a lot recently. so i could never forgive the person, who I'm currently angry with. they have done enough damage to the point where i cant even look at them anymore. let alone forgive them! so forgiving is a big issue in my opinion. and i could never forgive someone who has hurt me. but my advice is to try. i mean, i had tried to forgive the person. but for me, it didn't personally work out as planned. so at least try. but if that doesn't work, then there really isn't much you can do about it.
2007-07-28 22:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but forgiveness is so important. many people do not understand that forgiveness is more for the person who is forgiving someone then the person who is being forgiven. forgiveness allows you to let go of the pain or hurt and move on. a lack of forgiveness may cause emotional issues and make you suffer more over time then when you were first hurt.
think of it this way:if a person hurts you, why would you want to continue to think about and be hurt by that uncaring person by not forgiving and moving on? so forgive and move on because an uncaring person is not worth thinking about or being hurt over.
2007-07-28 10:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by ultralord41 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I find it easy that's the problem,
Some people take advantage of my kind nature,
After being taken for a ride yet again today I have decided that I'm not going to be so forgiving and understanding, it will be reserved for those who deserve me
2007-07-28 10:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't find it hard to forgive but if someone's really hurt me I sometimes find it harder to forget it
2007-07-28 10:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by hortense h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is hard, but it is possible.
My ex left me when our son was one, we had just bought a house together and he worked as a restaurant manager.
He rang me from work one night and told me he didn't love me any more. He came home that night, told me he was unhappy and the next morning he went back to work and he never came home again.
He left me on my own to pay a morgage and look after a one year old, then it gets worse I found out he had moved in (one week later) with one of the customers from the restaurant he worked in. Even worse she was two years older than me, with three kids. He only stayed with her 1 month and she kicked him out, which made me laugh, our 4 year relationship, his son, his home, for 1 month with some strange woman.
I was destroyed, but because I have a son with him and he happens to have a fantastic family, who supported me not him. We are now at a point where he comes around for coffee sometimes and last month we took our son on holiday to Turkey together.
I would never have him back and have no feelings for him any more, as I read what I have wrote it amazes me how horrible he was to me. But my son is such a happy little boy, who has a fantastic relationship with his dad and he had an amazing time being on holiday with both of us.
Also it has helped me, all the anger and the pain went when I forgave him, so I have moved on!
2007-07-28 21:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Queenie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's hard to forgive. Impossible to forget.
2007-07-28 10:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by Frosty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's hard. But we have to forgive people, because nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes. But usually I don't forget what that person did to me.
2007-07-28 10:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by Claudia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do but a lot depends upon how they go about fixing what they've done wrong....if they're sincere in making amends I'll forgive and forget...if they're stubborn I might never forgive them.
2007-07-28 10:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by Citizen Mac 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation... heres 2 examples..
my friends girlfriend hinted we were more than friends.. truth being she tried it on.. i didn't accept..
due to that we never spoke again and a mutual friend told me he thinks i'm still carrying on with her years after.. lol
the way an ex girlfriend finished our relationship. It wasn't nice at all. 3 years later she heard something not so nice was going on in my life and contacted me via email. I forgave her in the sense of she didn't mean malice, I know that now at the time it wasn't so nice. I'd never see her again. Kinda found it difficult to speak to her as I know I couldn't pretend to be just friends it was so fake.. and if we ever met again etc.. "things" might happen. So i will never see her again, I think its the best solution.
it depends on the person and the situations.. those closest to you can inflict the most damage
2007-07-28 10:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by junglejungle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in forgiving, even if the person really hurt me. I just hope that person learned by their mistake.
2007-07-28 10:22:55 · answer #11 · answered by deiracefan_219 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋