Okay, So i recently signed up on myspace, and have about 280 friends on,
out of which i think i am real friends with 100 of them....
1) I was thinking of deleting a few ppl I no longer talk to, and sticking to only a select few I actually still talk to, and consider friends.... What would you do?
2) Do you think thats a good idea cause honestly the more ppl you have - from your past - the more likely you are to NOT be able to move on correct?
3) Should I or not delete my ex's best friend - we were friends once upon a time...
2007-07-28 09:24:45 · 20 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think the best thing for you to do is a good "clean-up" among those who are genuine and those who are not! This way your life will be simpler and you will be able to have a life beyond the computer space. Those who are no longer an active part of your daily life, it is all right to delete their name! And those you don't know well, just be careful because there are all kinds of weirdoes out there!
Have a wonderful week-end!
2007-07-28 09:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by montralia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way: Are you having fun on MySpace? If not, is it really worth it? If all it does is cause anxiety and worry about who will get upset about being deleted/added, etc, don't you think it is counterproductive?
I still have a MySpace page, but asked myself those very questions recently, and decided that I would eliminate all but family members, and EXTREMELY close friends. To be perfectly honest, I am now having much more fun because it is much more of an intimate and friendly page than when I was getting JUNK from people I barely knew - if I knew them at all.
I know many people who think of MySpace as a place to see who can get the most friends - sorta like here where people try to collect the most contacts or the highest "Best Answer" percentage. I don't know about you, but I have enough complications in my life without adding even more to the list.
Once I realized too many people were getting too close to me through MySpace (I am a pretty private person despite the fact a lot of people know me), I decided to trim things down, and I'm glad I did.
Whatever you do, do it because you want to - not because it seems like the thing to do or what someone else tells you to do. If you go from tons of so-called "friends" on MySpace to a few close friends, what is the matter with that?
Use the site to meet your desires - don't make it still more work for yourself to maintain and worry about! Have fun! :-)
2007-07-28 09:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kesokram 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well considering ur even asking this question clearly you still have some type of interest in them. deleting them from your myspace wont really make a difference in the speed u will get over them. the only difference will be is that u will wonder whats on their myspace page if its set private or you will frustrate yourself even more because you would have to keep searching for them through myspace's search engine because you will always be curious of their myspace. my advice to you is dont waste your time.
2007-07-28 09:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany Patterson 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should go ahead and delete the ones you no longer talk to so you can make room for all the new friends you make. And yes if you don't let go of the past you can never truly move on and have a happy future.
2007-07-28 09:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by rfgjipetge 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) yea, i would prolly do the same.
2)...well it depends if u really know these ppl in person. if its just some random ppl u have never met, delete if u want, it prolly wont matter. but its not like ppl u dont know very well are going to confront u about it, like 'omfg y did u delete me!!!'
3)well if u have talked to them in person recently or hung out with them or something recently then probably no. but if they hold some sort of sentimental value to u then u should also keep them, like to remind u or whatever. lol
=D hope it helped
2007-07-28 09:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I delete the people I dont talk to,I recently had like 116 then I deleted a LOT and ended up with 15 frieds left.I mean whats the use of having all those extra friends when you dont even know them or dont even know them at all.When I started deleting them I never even remember adding them.
2007-07-28 09:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have MySpace and rarely talk to most of the people on there. But I don't want to delete them, because what if I want to talk to them someday? But I don't have nearly that many friends.
If I were you... I'd delete the ones that you know you'll never talk to again. What's the point of keeping them on your MySpace anyway?
2007-07-28 09:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have a 360 page and if I don't hear from someone within 2 months, I delete them. I believe in conversation and if you don't have time for that, keep it movin'.
2007-07-28 09:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix Rising 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. i would just keep all of them bc on myspace the more friends u have the better!!!
2.huh???
3.i would its for ur own good...
2007-07-28 09:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by Brittneyy.♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't talk to them much are they even going to notice you deleted them? Do what you want. If you are worried about hurting their feelings leave them on your friend's list unless you are wanting to be private and have them not see your page.
2007-07-28 09:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by Twinkle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋