I was divorced a few years ago, got into a relationship that financially killed me and I have been suffering from depression ever since. I recently moved home and am still after 7 months, trying to rebuild my life, but it seems I am still barely hanging on. I am 34, no kids, no degree and I am at a place in my life, mind and heart where I feel kind of lost. I don't know what to do? A life coach? I'm stuck....anyone been through this and how do it get out!?
2007-07-28 06:26:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just stay strong, I'm sorry I've never been there but I'm here if u need a friend
2007-07-28 06:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some counseling to help you determine what you really want out of life. You also need to learn how to enter into healthy relationships with the opposite sex. Maybe there are unresolved childhood issues or self-esteem issues. A good counselor can help you work through your problems.
Go back to school and take some classes at community college. That will at least give you some feeling of accomplishment. See if you are eligible for any aid. Check with churches, some have divorce support groups and you needn't be a church member, they're open to the community.
Take care of your physical health - eat right and exercise even if it's just going for a walk or a bicycle ride. Get a pet. Pets love you unconditionally. Volunteer for some cause just to get out and stay busy. You may meet people who can help you start over.
2007-07-28 06:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear One,
It may seem as though all hope is gone for u right now, but i can assure it is not.... Sometimes we have to look at life's lesson's as being part of school...... Hurt can be a very painful thing.... and i am guessing but when u entered into this other relationship u were still vulnerable from the divorce. So to please the other person u supported them financially with whatever they wanted. U have to hold your head up and know that God love's u and all though this is a set back for u.. Things will get better.....But u have got to heal from the hurt which u have first experienced.....And once u do that than u can begin to slowly move forward with your life...
First find God and then look into your heart to see what it is you want out of life for yourself..... Then take each day slowly... Tell the Lord what it is you want in a mate and be patient he will direct you.... Above all my dear one Trust God.....And seek his comfort.... That is the only way for you to overcome this situation.....
May God Bless You.... I will pray for u....
2007-07-28 06:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by ttmistress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
melissa, join a course which would give u a qualification, apart from keeping u busy & meeting new people. go to a singles bar, meet all ur old friends again, find a book (love story or oliver's story) read it in a nice garden. there ! u r back
2007-07-28 06:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by The Monk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, it in simple terms so happens, I have been given a load of funds to launder - so e mail your thong to me and that i'll wash it! you will possibly be king of the dance tonite 'reason your wang'll scent like a million greenbacks! And, what the heck, i'm going to throw in some counterfeits - for information!
2016-10-09 12:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have time to maybe start a college class, nights or full time, do something you are intrested in and you will meet new friends with the same intrests.
Don't dwell on the past to much there is nothing you can do to change it.
Wear Sunscreen.
2007-07-28 06:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by TJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes right now been in bad relationship one after anothen been verbally physically abused with a lot of alcoholics very needy afraid of being alone when i get close i get scared then self sabotage it i spent over 1500 on my ex then he dumped me for my best friend then dumped her and went with my best friend of 13 yrs im lonely im a nice girl
2007-07-28 06:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The blunder you made, you are going to pay its price. now you have realized it, you will find a way to cope with it.
2007-07-28 06:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋