i admire my aerobics instructor i have been admiring her for the pat 4 months i want to become close with her?

Question

she is basically a very friendly person its me who is feeling so shy to even look at her eyes when she comes i even turn off my face wihout smiling i dont know y i am very regular to her class is that wrong also we both are of the same sex my age is 17 and she is 35 she is also not moving well with me these daysonly bcoz i am not talking well to her

Answer 1

This is normal but do not take it to next level.

You do not look at her because deep down in your heart and soul you are uncomfortable.

"Lynn C" answer is very good.

The answer is good only if you are going to a "Private Club" does not hold good in case it is a school or college scenario.

But I say, what I have said to all young people, here it is.
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General Advice to Young People
By
Minootoo


This is my general advice to all.

You sound very young and if you are under 25, then study hard if in school or college, stay and finish it.

Build a carrier, youth comes but once take full advantage of it. Study hard, play some enjoy friendship, and then at age 25 if still unattached then try the sites like.

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This next article deals with other aspects of such relationship. It deals with Romantic relationship with Student - Teachers, only in an academic situation and Doctors Patient, in any situation.
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Doctor – Patient and Teacher –Student or Professor
By
Minootoo.

Falling in love is a natural phenomenon.
Community Guideline type, written and unwritten rule governs the individuals conduct. Most of the time, the rules are not enforced but they haunt most people if the relationship goes sauwer. Or worst yet someone figure the people involved or even one of them.

Most courts would agree that certain cooling off period is needed, so as to over comes these guidelines imposed by the community, it is not engraved in granite, but two years of no contact is considered ample.

A psychologist, should refer a patients to some one else immediately, even if only patient is feeling an attachment to the doctor in certain romantic way. Further the courts have put the burden on the doctor to recognize this type of behavior.

In USA doctors loss their license, and have gone to jail for long time over it.

Professors and teacher are usually let go and have difficulty finding another job, in many cases they also loose their teaching or professional license.

In case of teachers involving minor students they are charged with Statutory Rape, and have gone to jail

Answer 2

Are you crazy? She's old enough to be your mother! You have some real issues. Quit going to the classes before you drive yourself more crazy than you already are. Get with girls your own age. What makes you think she would even think about getting close with you or any of her other students?

But if you are serious, be a man and walk up to her and ask her if she'd like to meet you for dinner or a movie. I'll bet you don't even know what her interests are. You are thinking with you little head my friend. Get over it.