What should I do to her?
2007-07-28 00:19:13 · 23 answers · asked by kittysoma27 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would just love to beat her w**** a** but I am afraid that I might go overboard and accidently kill her, so I probably shouldn't beat her a**. What should I do to her? I am pissed at him too but I do still love him and we desided to try to work things out. He is however not off the hook for his part in all of this.
2007-07-28 00:23:05 · update #1
I can possiably forgive him for his part because at least he was honest about it and had the guts to tell me the truth. He told me that it only happend that one time and I do believe him about that because he did admit to sleeping with her. And no, I will never forgive her. I started thinking back of how she has been behaving for about 6 months now and I should of realized that she wanted him.
2007-07-28 00:28:27 · update #2
To the person who said that he's not mine anymore not to be rude or anything, but I don't care if he was mine or not when they slept together, I would NEVER sleep with one of her ex's. It's called respect and if she valued our friendship at all, she should of found someone else to sleep with. My husband is not the only man in the world. If she just absolutly had to have him she could of at least waited longer than 1 frikin' day.
2007-07-28 00:45:44 · update #3
I think that you should move on you can't change what your husband or what your best friend did. So don't let it make you bitter and angry as it won't help you to move on.
I assume your best friend isn't married if not does her husband know what she did. I don't know how long you've been friends but her betrayal is worse just as bad as your husbands. He isn't blameless as he knew she was your best friend and he did it anyway.
The mean side of me thinks letting everyone know what he and she did so that everyone knows they can't be trusted.
It's ok to wish they get what they both deserve, its just not your job to make it happen.
Hope that helps
2007-07-28 01:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Nitro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call her a friend. And legally you were still married. But hon, you really need to think this through,because a similar thing happened to me, my now ex said the same things, we had 2 young boys at the time, but it didn't stop him from doing it again with the same person. He later married her, got a divorce and is remarried.(His third) Later the woman he left me for informed me that he had told her we were going through a divorce, we weren't. To me marriage is based on trust, will you really trust him again? If it's working out great, but remember it takes 2 to tango! That person was a so-called friend of mine too.
2007-07-28 09:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what I would do if I were you, introduce her to me, I will get to know her and make her fall in love with me then in a few days we will come over to visit and I will make love to you in front of your husband and ex best friend. I'll empty her bank account and you empty his and we'll go on a vacation. Who knows, maybe we'lll all end up on the Springer show.
2007-07-28 07:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by james p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Just let your wretched friend and your horrible soon to be ex-husband go off and do as they please. Remember, what goes around comes around. It'll come back to bite her in the butt eventually. Move on with your life and find some happiness for yourself. That is the best revenge.
2007-07-28 07:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, just break all ties with her. Doing something to her just brings you down to her level. Sounds cliched but it's true. What's happened has happened, and as painful as it is, life is in front of you not behind you. Live a good life, that is truly the best revenge.
2007-07-28 07:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by hogfanbk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump her ***. Ignore her and get on with your own life and make it a happy one. That will really get up her nose. She couldnt have been tooo good if he dumped her straight away. She was never a friend to start with. Just beat her a little if that makes you feel beta.
2007-07-28 07:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I no how you feel. Beating her won't prove anything, except that you have a mean nasty temper. Let it go and move on. They are not worth your tears. Both of them are cheaters, and loosers...
2007-07-28 07:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing
don't do anything you want done to you. forget about your friend and husband. get a divorce. move on. get a new love to fill in all the empty spaces. love again.
but most important of all, forget your anger. let it go,
2007-07-28 07:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by Coralp 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gee, maybe you ought to slap yourself, because you're giving him another chance to dog you. You can't profess all this anger at her for being a crappy friend, when you are being an even worse friend to yourself.
2007-07-28 07:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sleep with her man if she has one...
pay back is a bishhh you know what Im talking about!
or you can beat her and him also because they are both wrong for doing that.
2007-07-28 07:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by La'Grange 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋