Hey, I am 17 and my sister is 16, believe me...this was a total accident.
A few months ago My sister and I had stold our parents vodka, from the kitchen while my parents were away for the weekend, we had gotten really drunk and I cant really remember what had happend, I remember waking up next to her fully naked and she was too, and my sister is very upset because she has been conplaining about her belly hurting for a few days now, and I think she is pregnent.
I am feeling very derpessed, and I have never felt so uncomfortable about my self. How would you feel if you had sex with your own sister and had gotten her pregnent.
I really need some advice on what I should tell my parents, my sister and I are very nervous right now.
Thanks in advance.
2007-07-27 20:00:18 · 57 answers · asked by Mike s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Some of you really need to grow up, it was an accident... I just want some real advice, not stupid spam from annoying little kids, don't comment if your going to be an ***.
2007-07-27 20:05:11 · update #1
Thankyou to some of the new comments, they are very apprecieated =)
2007-07-27 20:07:11 · update #2
Hey My sister just got back, thanks to all of you who have been so kind, and I hate all you offensive people telling me to go to hell, how about you pricks go to hell and back off.
My sister is in the bathroom right now, and when she comes out I will see if she is pregenent or not...
Im very scared right now, and Im sure she is too.
Also My sister never had sex before unforutunally she lost her virginity to me. But I have slept with other girls allways usind prtoection though.
2007-07-27 20:24:38 · update #3
OMFG!!! I am so thankful...thanks to all you kind people... my sister isn't pregnent, we can live our lives normailly now :) The only thing that is still bothering me is if Her and me actually slept together...I just hope we didn't...well thanks every one. Have a nice day =)
2007-07-27 20:37:42 · update #4
It wasn't an accident if you drunk the vodka. What you need to do is get her first tested, they sell them at the supermarket. If she does turn out to be pregnant, you need to talk to your parents.
Best of luck, sweetie.
Another thing is to make sure that you didn't do anything else that night, either. Just don't drink anymore, and stuff like this won't happen. You have to realize though that this wasn't a total accident if you drunk; your underage.
2007-07-27 20:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by Momo 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your sister's belly hurting doesn't mean that she is pregnant. Tell her to go to a doctor because even though home tests are fairly reliable, the doctor will be 100% sure. Second, I wouldn't even say anything to your parents right now. It's great that you guys are willing to admit to your mistake and take responsibility for it, but you need to think about what the outcome will be if you guys come forward with this. It was a stupid mistake, if it even did happen, but how the hell are you going to explain incest? I would personally go to church for confession, because what you did should remain between you and God. Think about what is going to happen with your family situation if your parents learned that you and your sister can't be trusted alone in their home? If she is pregnant, you guys are in serious trouble. Besides the possible birth defects that this poor, potential baby could have, imagine the horror and humiliation it will face growing up knowing that it's mom is it's aunt and it's dad is it's uncle. This is probably a situation where abortion is best. Or if you can come up with a really good story, adoption. What the hell were you thinking? Booze makes people do stupid things... but this sort of thing shouldn't ever happen. Don't ever drink with your sister again.
2007-07-27 20:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by mitchell 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off I am glad it all turned out well that she is not pregnant, now for the other side of the coin, I would hope you have learned a lesson here. Never drink irresponsibly, Then you need to make sure that if you do decide to drink that your sister and others don't drink so someone can keep a level head. Another thing get into a Church youth program where you can learn better methods of filling needs. Drinking is not the answer, sex is not the answer, the answer can be found in God's Word. Find a bible and read it and take your mind off growing up to fast.
2007-07-28 01:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I understand that drinking is something that all kids want to try. This is where the whole schpeal about responsibility comes into play. First off, I wouldn't go talking about this to anyone that you know. You made the decision to drink, but the fact that your parents left you alone with alcohol? Each of your parents can be arrested for 2 counts of distribution of alcohol to a minor. If your sister is pregnant, she will know. It has nothing to do so much with a bellyache. I'm talking she will be nauseated all day, everyday, throwing up in the morning, breasts extremely sore and nipples hurting badly, tired all the time, she won't eat because of the nausea, she may actually just look at something and vomit because she's sick.
Getting your sister pregnant? I live (but not from) Alabama...
All joke aside, I understand that you both are scared, but you need to come clean with mom and pop. They will not trust you both for a very long time, but this is something pretty serious and I suggest you talk to your parents. You'd be surprised at how understanding parents can truly be. Good luck and no more alcohol.
2007-07-27 20:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'm going to answer this seriously. How many months ago? Has she had her period since the incident? Is she sexually active with anyone else? These are the first things to consider.
If she has not had a period since then, get a pregnancy test. Really, a hurting stomach is not a main sign of pregnancy. If she does test positive for pregnancy, there's nothing you two can do except to tell your parents and see a doctor.
And, of course, don't do that again. I'm not sure but it might be a good idea for both of you to see a counselor of some sort, whether she is pregnant or not.
2007-07-27 20:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by blooming chamomile 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious and she does turn up pregnant, I would say she should have an abortion. Or give the baby up for adoption. This baby will have alot of emotional pain as well as the possibility of it becoming handicapped. I wouldn't normally recommend abortion but this baby will have to grow up with the fact that it's mother and father are also brother and sister and that will be very painful for him/her. You should get your sister a pregnancy test and find out as soon as possible and go to Planned Parenthood to speak with a counselor ASAP. A professional will be able to help guide you through this. Next time love your little sister and protect her. That is your job as an older brother. You are suppose to protect her from these things.
P.S. I would not tell your parents if that is at all possible. They will never see the two of you the same. Just try to get past this and help your little sister to do the same. We all make mistakes and God forgives us.
2007-07-27 20:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by marie s 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Before you panic too much go to the store and get a home pregnancy test. If she's missed her period by more than 2 weeks you should be able to tell. Also has she had sex with anyone else if she is pregnant is it possible it could be someone elses? Also if you passed out and don't remember then how do you know you had sex. It sucks but if things turn out bad your just going to have to face things head on.
2007-07-27 20:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by Orion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first place maybe you didnt get her pregnant and maybe one of your friends did if you had friends over the house. second get a pregnancy test and follow the directions telling your parents is another story i dont know what to tell u to tell them i would take the test first then decide how to break the news to them also let this be a lesson to you alcohol and sex never go together now and in the future. good luck to u if she is pregnant i would go to planned parenthood they could help you and i believe they also do free testing if u dont have the money to buy a kit they cost around $7.00 and up any store brand will work even the dollar store one for a $1.00 will work if you have such a store near u
2007-07-27 20:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by marianne l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok im going to be understanding considering you were drunk..
first of all dont tell anyone until you know for sure she is pregnant..buy her a home test kit...if shes not pregnant thank god and never drink again..this is what happens when kids do stuff they shouldnt be doing..something bad always happens or you get caught..if she is pregnant im sorry that you two made the desicon to drink in the first place...it is although both your faults...never drink again until you 21 and not around family..if she is pregnant i do not believe in abortion there fore she can have the baby then give it up for adoption.but in this case i do reccomend abortion just because the baby will suffer more living a disabled life...
2007-07-27 20:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by Alyssa D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell your parents the truth.
1. Get a pregnancy test.
If she is pregnant, the chances of any severe defects are low unless either of you were the product of an incestuous relationship.
You will both need some form of councelling. Pregnancy can be a stressful time for anyone, let alone someone of your age, let alone when the partner is your sibling.
PS. i hope this is not a joke because it is NOT funny.
2007-07-27 20:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋