If I wanted to get to you what could I do in order to do that, both in a good and bad way?

Question

What thing could I do that would make you not like me if I did that to you? What thing would make you like me if I did that to you? Please be thoughtful and describe these things well if you want the ten points here.

Answer 1

i think the things/actions/attitudes would matter, whether you did them to me, or to someone else
meaning, if i saw compassion, friendliness , politeness, i would like you
if i saw put-downs, hurtful type comments or actions, or disrespect, i wouldnt like you
one saying i like and try to live by , is "you dont build yourself up by putting others down"
a person building theirselves up in correct ways is very likeable, and rudeness to others puts you down low, which isnt likeable at all !