Don't they know that we just want to be left alone?
2007-07-27 18:45:36 · 13 answers · asked by NoLongerHere 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If you put your business out there for people to know they will get into it. It is better if you want to be left alone to be alone. People, I have learned, either 1 want to help, or 2 need someones situation that is worse than theirs to talk about so they can feel better about themselves. It is a crazy world but that is the just of it.
2007-07-28 10:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People can only get into your business if you let them.
If you want them to mind their own business and stay out of yours, it's best not to tell them your troubles or get them involved in any way.
You have the right to choose , who you confide in.
If someone sticks their nose in where it doesn't belong.
Tell them you would appreciate it very much if they would mind their own business!
or
Tell them you wish to be left alone at this time. Say it isn't anything personal. You really want and need some peace and quiet to sort things out and collect your thoughts.
Tell them that when you are ready to spend time with them again they will be the first to know.
Everyone needs time to themselves. Some of us require much more than others.
Good luck!
2007-07-27 19:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by Positive-Pixie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're no longer incorrect. I honestly have had some step verify nightmares, in spite of the undeniable fact that that's ME who feels like I have no suitable to do or say what i could desire to. i actually do no longer understand why simply by fact my stepson lives with us finished time and barely sees his mom. it is not in basic terms different people who permit you already know to butt out, the step infant can say that, too, that's some thing i've got heard back and back. After 4 years of hell, that's getting to be practicable yet I nonetheless won't be able to recover from the certainty that i'm no longer his mom and should no longer be making any considerable judgements affecting him. I circulate away that to his father. On yet another spectrum, i became additionally a step infant, raised via my step mom considering that i became 4. at a similar time as a number of that element of my family individuals in no way made me experience disconnected, many have and because my stepmom died, it is even worse. Even on the funeral, human beings saved asserting, "Oh, your Johnny's lady, suitable?" as though my grief became any much less simply by fact she wasn't my actual mom, even although she became the sole mom I ever knew. i assume that's why i think like I do in direction of my step babies. i attempt to stay as plenty out of the main significant judgements as achievable simply by fact i do no longer opt to be the reason my husband's family individuals comes down on him for judgements I make. there'll continually be a stigma, a spot between what all of us understand is suitable for the youngsters and what others believe, quite in the event that they have in no way been a step verify. i like how maximum people who've in no way been a step verify can step suitable in and let us know what we are doing suitable and incorrect and often be the 1st to critisize.
2016-10-12 23:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by koltay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone leaves me alone, i think i am sending either the wrong or right signals
2007-07-27 18:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Moanika 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's what I want to know! I hate my nosy neighbors. They are all upon my sh*t. When I leave, who I leave with... it's like, why do they care? And they don't. They just wanna gossip. Idiots!
2007-07-27 18:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by Bunny Boiler 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe they just want to help because they love u and don't want to see u like that so they get into u to find out want is wrong
2007-07-28 11:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by Wee Fee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No they do not--they think they know they rules and can play.
2007-07-27 21:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they have no busniness of their own.
2007-07-27 18:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by Thumper 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
and you are taking a poll about this? nosey huh?
2007-07-27 18:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by HitMan Harry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they don't have life... that's why they mind the life of other people...
2007-07-27 21:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sapphire 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋